Post Date December, 03 2023
This society places too much psychological pressure on men, forcing them to hide their inner unease and cowardice, pretending to be strong and calm. If a woman loves someone, she should allow them to easily remove her disguise and face her with a true heart. Now the editor teaches you how to see through his emotional disguise and make him stand in front of you truly.
Disguise 1. I am powerful and don't care if you recognize my strength
In ECHO's impression, the gentleman has always been confident in bed. After each task, he always asks ECHO to express his feelings. ECHO sometimes hesitates and doesn't know how to say it because her feeling is really average. At this moment, the gentleman would open his eyes wide and say, isn't it good? How do I feel like it's always so good, getting better every time. My husband has always sneered at ECHO's frequent complaints about the insufficient duration and frequency of SEX. ECHO believes that the gentleman is too arrogant and doesn't care what he says, so he is increasingly joking about his sexual abilities. The gentleman's attitude is still tough, but ML's enthusiasm is decreasing.
Psychological interpretation: Almost no man in the world is satisfied with his SEX ability, just like no woman is completely satisfied with her appearance. However, even if a man has ED, he will never admit that he cannot do it. The weather is not right, my wife is not gentle, and so on. Getting him to admit that 'I can't do it anymore' is a deadly thing. Although he always pretends not to care about it, it's best for women to understand that in bed, men care about women's feelings, and their praise is almost all the motivation for his efforts.
Disguise 2. Pretend to be humorous and promise casually
"How about buying a house next year?" "No problem." "Go to get a marriage certificate on November." "Good." That's how Weiwei's boyfriend casually promised. Even if Vivi said, 'I want the star in the sky,' he wouldn't hesitate to say, 'I'll pick it for you.'. However, if you ask afterwards, eh, didn't you promise, why didn't you do it. He would pretend to be innocent and say, "Ah, you're serious, I thought you were joking." Vivi thought her boyfriend was being hypocritical, but he said, 'I'm saying this to make you happy.'.
Psychological interpretation: In the relationship between men and women, what men are most afraid of is not being dumped but arguing. Because they really can't handle women's sharp tongues and careful thinking. Commitment is an unbearable burden for men, but women seem to be all "commitment maniacs". If they don't agree, they will definitely be wearing the hat of "Do you still look like a man. So the man disguised himself as "very humorous", constantly promising women but only thinking about how to escape. Facing such men, if women are not strong enough or not ready to get along with them, it is best to avoid them.
Camouflage 3. Keep Us Together
Does he really love me, but it seems that every girlfriend he loves in this way? "Xiao Wu was confused recently when she accidentally learned that her boyfriend's past girlfriend also thought he was very sticky. My boyfriend always wants to be with her for anything, even if she works overtime on Sundays, he has to wait at the coffee shop downstairs at the company. At first, Xiao Wu felt sweet, but gradually he felt dull and suffocated.
Psychological interpretation: Some men will give up "I don't need you" and go to another extreme - wanting to be with you forever. This disguise usually appears during the romantic or newlywed stage. If you think he really loves you that much and doesn't want to part for a moment, it's a mistake. In fact, such a man has a strong possessiveness in love, and he hopes that you will always be in his sight not because of longing, but because he is afraid of not knowing what you are doing.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)
