Post Date November, 16 2024
A psychological interview said that the teenage girl was curious and stole a pornographic CD purchased by her family, but her mother unconsciously discovered it. She was worried that seeing these things would affect her normal development and growth, and wanted to talk to her child, but she didn't know where to speak, causing tension and panic. Children feel that seeing those things is not a good thing, and they fall into the pain of self blame and guilt
China has thousands of years of feudal history and has long been constrained by closed sexual attitudes and traditional culture. The topic of sex is also difficult to express among adults. However, when facing children's problems, fear, fear, and avoidance are not helpful in solving them. At this point, the wisest and most effective way for parents is to learn about their students' sexual health knowledge, consult with experts, find suitable opportunities in life, naturally communicate adolescent development issues with their children, appropriately express their opinions and opinions, and provide positive guidance to their children. This not only satisfies children's thirst for sexual health knowledge, solves their curiosity and mysterious psychology towards sexual development, but also promotes their understanding of their own phenomena. Otherwise, it will generate a sense of guilt like the girls in the program. Psychologists analyze that this sense of guilt is likely to have a negative impact on children's future physical and mental development.
Children's sexual curiosity is the normal expression of sexual consciousness and Psychosexual development, and is the necessary stage to mature. Parents should not only care about their lives and studies, but also pay attention to their children's physiological and psychological changes. Because these changes reflect children's thirst for sexual knowledge, if this demand is not properly met and correctly guided, it is easy for children to become confused about their rapid physical and mental changes, and even lead to sexual psychological disorders due to excessive suppression, or sexual crimes due to excessive indulgence. Learning some knowledge about students' sexual health education can not only improve parents' understanding and attitude towards sexual health, but also correctly understand the physiological and psychological phenomena that occur during sexual development, improve parents' sexual concepts and attitudes, and set an example for children to imitate and learn. Through self-education, the quality of marriage life and the ability to educate children can be improved.
Currently, research has found that the main ways for school-age adolescents to acquire sexual health knowledge are through teachers (39%), health classes (28%), parents (16%), and television (11%). School and family are the main ways for students to acquire sexual health knowledge, and the role of parents in children's sexual health education is irreplaceable. Parents in the 21st century should shoulder these responsibilities and obligations, and provide scientific and healthy assistance for their children's healthy growth. This is not only a need for the development of the times, but also to become intimate friends with children, narrow their psychological distance, promote their healthy development, and help them take an important path of adolescent sexual development in their lives.
