When a person has sexual difficulties, the first thing he (she) worries about is often the physiological and pathological reasons and ignores the psychological factors. At this time, if there is hostility between husband and wife, they think that it is the sexual barrier that causes the hostility between husband and wife. In fact, sometimes the opposite is true. It is the hostility between husband and wife that leads to sexual barriers.
The occurrence of sexual disorders, of course, further deepened the hostility between husband and wife.
This hostility often begins with differences between the sexes. For example, the way of thinking, needs, and emotional reactions.
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Miss Liao and Mr. Chen have been married for less than half a year and have had problems with their sexual life. Every time she had sex, Miss Liao seemed to have an indescribable resentment and a hostile attitude towards her husband. Sometimes it is said that her husband didn't choose the right time and woke her up at midnight. Sometimes I simply say that I'm not in a good mood tonight. The tenderness and tenderness of the newlyweds disappeared without trace.
Mr. Chen was puzzled by Miss Liao's transformation. He couldn't figure out what was wrong with them. So I had to consult a psychologist.
The doctor asked Mr. Chen whether there had been any unhappiness between them recently, even if it was a small matter? Mr. Chen thought and thought, and said a few things that he thought were not serious.
After her marriage, Miss Liao went home from work every day with great enthusiasm, happily and continuously buying all kinds of things from the street, trying to improve her small home. Finally, the "nesting" project came to an end, and friends and relatives from all walks of life also came to visit. Amid the applause, Miss Liao was complacent, but her husband's response was not as enthusiastic as she expected. This made Miss Liao very unhappy. She repeatedly asked her husband what was wrong? The husband said, "In our company's Miss Xu's home, the light distribution is relatively reasonable. There is enough light to read in both the room and the living room
The house was dressed up. Miss Liao wore a beautiful windbreaker and went home, Entering the door, he put his arm around his husband's neck and asked, "Is it beautiful? Guess how much?" The husband said with certainty, "250 yuan." "Nerve Bo, look carefully at the brand, can you buy 250 yuan?" The husband insisted, "Miss Xu bought this brand, which is exactly the same as yours. She told me it was 250 yuan. Miss Liao's face darkened. Mr. Chen still had to explain further: "There are great differences in prices due to different purchasing channels and different grades of shopping malls." Miss Liao was very unhappy.
One day, Mr. Chen told his wife that his colleagues in the company had a party at Miss Xu's house and would not go home for dinner at night. The husband came back at half past nine and said, "The chicken soup made by Miss Xu is really delicious. I studied it for a long time. She put chicken and scallops in the soup. The two kinds of delicious taste together, and the soup will be particularly delicious. Later, our family......" "Later, you can go to her house every day to drink it." Miss Liao rudely interrupted her husband.
After listening to Mr. Chen's narration, the doctor said, "Your wife is eating Miss Xu's vinegar." The doctor thought that the first thing to do is to eliminate Miss Liao's jealousy towards Miss Xu.
Finally, one day, Miss Liao saw Miss Xu in her husband's company. Only then did she know that Miss Xu was a middle-aged woman in her late fifties, and she was her husband's immediate supervisor. They were walking out of the door when they bumped into Miss Xu. Miss Xu nodded with an elder smile and then hurried into the elevator.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)