Post Date December, 03 2023
Many people believe that there is no pure friendship between men and women, while others believe it does not exist. So, is there a pure friendship between women? This is not an easy answer, but perhaps some classmates who are heterosexual friends and girlfriends still have a clear idea. We are not proficient in love psychology, we don't know who is thinking, and we don't know how to read minds. Let's see if there are any stories or pure friendships that women have to tell their female friends of the opposite sex. Let's put them aside and join the editor to see why women like male friends.
Why do women like male girlfriends
Good boyfriend, women all understand. They can be your trash can, driver, bodyguard, and confidant without complaint, providing relaxed companionship and strong support. However, from a psychological point of view, this is also the projection of Animus from the female heart, which helps to stabilize their hearts, enrich their perspectives and make their relationship more complete through male friends.
With the popularity of the TV drama "I Love My Boyfriend", "Boyfriend" has become a fashionable term both on and off the stage. Let's take a look at the well-known male friends we all know: Cai Kangyong to Xiao S, Huang Xiaoming to Zhao Wei, He Jiong to Xie Na, Dai Junzhi to Li Jing... With the development of society, women are no longer satisfied with the friendship between same-sex female friends.
Because unlike same-sex girlfriends, male girlfriends can not only cry with you, laugh with you, go crazy with you, make trouble with you, listen to you talk, lend your shoulders, and shelter you from the wind and rain, but also engage in deep spiritual communication with you from a male perspective.
Data shows that over half of women have male best friends. It can be seen from this that women seem to need male girlfriends very much. It is said that women who have male girlfriends appear more attractive and even have a stronger sense of happiness, which makes people envious.
What kind of psychological needs do male girlfriends meet for women
1. Seeing the dawn through a tangled mess
My best friend is my spiritual mentor, who understands me very well and can communicate with me on a spiritual level, "said Sun Yi, the director of human resources, with a smile, Same sex girlfriends can go shopping, gossip, and talk about family and parenting together; husbands can raise children with themselves and take on the economic responsibility of building a family; male girlfriends just make up for the part that neither husband nor female girlfriends can meet. If life is like a circle, a life with male girlfriends is perfect. "Sun Yi's summary is very accurate, according to Dr. Zhang Peichao, a psychological consultant, A male best friend indeed satisfies emotions that neither her husband nor ordinary friends can satisfy. Husband satisfies men but not intimate, female friends cannot satisfy men. Zhang Peichao believes that this is a relationship similar to the transitional object in the transitional space, situated in a perfect relationship. For married women, if the husband can fulfill all functions, the function of the male best friend will be weakened.
If items such as plush toys and blankets are transitional objects for babies, when the mother is not around, they can bring the baby a sense of security and comfort, driving away loneliness and anxiety. A male best friend can not only provide us with emotional comfort, but also provide substantial assistance. In the opinion of psychological counselor Lu Yue, male girlfriends provide women with a warm or holding relationship.
In our lives, we may encounter two types of troubles. One is that we are injured and need someone to hug us very much. However, sometimes, our injuries are a form of confusion and require directional guidance. Due to the relatively rational and objective perspective of men, they are not so strongly influenced by emotions, as if they can see the dawn through a mess
If the relationship between women and their husbands is not particularly good, they need friends of the opposite sex even more. They need to listen and understand from a male perspective, and even provide directional guidance.
