Appreciation
We all hope to gain recognition and appreciation from others, and children are no exception. Parents should view their children with appreciation when educating them. For example, if a child is learning to draw, you should appreciate their paintings;
When a child is writing, appreciate the words they write; He is playing chess, you appreciate his playing... You know, what children care most about is the sincere appreciation and affirmation from their parents! Children constantly grow up in the appreciation of their parents.
Praise
Even adults crave praise from others, let alone children. Parents should often praise their children in a timely manner, cultivate their interest and enthusiasm in doing something, and enhance their confidence.
For example, when a child learns to play Go, regardless of their level, parents can find someone to compete with their child and try their best to make them win two sets, praising their efforts to master the chess skills.
If children do not receive praise, it is difficult for them to maintain enthusiasm and enthusiasm to continue learning. We cannot hope that children, like adults, can consciously strive and strive for their future and ideals.
Encouragement
Encouragement can help children maintain motivation and enthusiasm for learning. Suggest parents to encourage their children more. For example, when a child plays table tennis with a partner, they should praise the child in a timely manner and remind him not to be proud when they win; When a child loses, encourage them to continue working hard and improving.
Role Models
To make children grow up healthy and happy, it not only requires parents' appreciation, praise, and encouragement, but also requires role models to learn from. This role model should first and foremost be parents.
Because parents are the first teachers of their children and spend the most time with them, the influence of parents' words and behavior on their children is more profound and long-lasting than anyone else.
Secondly, recognized advanced figures in society and excellent classmates around children can all be role models for children to learn from. The power of a good role model is enormous!