Post Date December, 03 2023
My wife and I are the same age and have been married for 20 years. In recent years, we have not only changed to a large house, but also bought a private car. I often think that in the past, life was difficult, and my wife had to weigh in when she wanted to buy a dress for a long time. Now that life is good, I need to compensate her more. "I asked her to buy some high-end clothes and cosmetics, as well as to go to beauty salons and travel. My wife was very happy and said that she was really lucky to be with me in this life.".
However, just as this happiness began, a thunderbolt hit us from the blue. At the beginning of last year, my wife suffered from a myoma of the uterus. Because the tumor was large, the doctor recommended surgery to remove it. At first, neither of us was too worried. We thought this was a common disease and wouldn't have any major impact on our lives after the surgery. However, during the surgery, the doctor suddenly told me that my wife had multiple tumors in her uterus, and it was best to have her uterus removed.
In order to prevent further attacks, I made a quick decision and agreed to the doctor's removal of my wife's uterus. After the surgery, when I told my wife about it, she actually cried sadly. "I comforted her and said, 'We're all middle-aged and we're not going to have any more children. Let's get rid of them.'". "But my wife said, 'This is how things are. It's one thing not to have them, it's another thing not to have them.'". Am I still a woman without a uterus?
My wife was a bit aggrieved and said why I agreed to the doctor's suggestion without consulting with her. I said, "In that case, how can I discuss it with you?"? Besides, I'm also afraid that you will get sick and suffer again. Under my guidance, my wife finally accepted this reality. However, after leaving the hospital and returning home, his wife has been unhappy and has no intention of dressing up. She commutes to and from work with a gloomy face every day.
In order to make my wife happy, I have thought of many ways. I bought her gifts, accompanied her to movies, and even accompanied her to learn dance. Slowly, my wife stopped mentioning this matter. I think the shadow in her heart may have dissipated. However, since the beginning of this year, my wife's temper has suddenly changed. Every once in a while, she finds fault and quarrels with me, either saying that I am not good or that I am not.
"I don't want to argue with her. Once she starts nagging, I'll just hang out and come back when her anger subsides.". At first, this move worked quite well, but gradually, it became difficult to use. "After I went home, my wife still hadn't finished her calculations, so she picked out those ugly words and scolded me. If I couldn't listen to them, I would reply with a few words. She said I was ungrateful and thought she was useless now, so she didn't care anymore.".
In the future, she suspects that I don't love her anymore. As soon as I leave home, she says I'm hiding from her and not looking at her; Whenever a member of the opposite sex calls me, she says I want to find a lover outside. Once, when I came back from a business trip, she unexpectedly called me up in the middle of the night to let me confess whether I had a lover outside. She always thinks everything she says is right, and I'm always lying.
In fact, our married life is very normal, but I don't know why she is so scared. Occasionally, my daughter also helps me enlighten her, but she scolds the child and says that the child was bought by me with money. Some people say that the wife's menopause is advanced, which can easily lead to depression. Soon, my daughter will be studying abroad, and I will also be working outside for a year. I'm really afraid that no one will be around her and she will suffer from depression.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
