Post Date December, 03 2023
Marriage, in its own right, should be a beautiful thing. The maintenance of marriage is not an easy task. Although marriage is a matter for two people and requires their joint efforts, most of the time, women give more than men in marriage. Therefore, women should learn more about marriage.
In marriage, if a woman wants to prevent her husband from betraying her, she needs to understand the hearts of men and what kind of marital status they want. When you understand the desire for free space in men's hearts, you will feel that home is sometimes a cage in the zoo for men - in the cage, what you really want is the unrestrained forest and grassland.
At this point, you will understand why men have such strong aggression because in marriage, their freedom, communication, and arbitrariness are all affected. So, for men, they should adopt a "free range" approach. Now let's take a look at what kind of mental state men really like.
Having ample personal space
Many men in marriage are complaining that getting married is not a good thing, and the good old days are no longer there. The so-called 'good old days' here refer to freely spending time and doing whatever you want. As soon as he got married, the man felt like he had become a "yo-yo ball" in his wife's hand - he ran a little farther and was pulled back by the thread in her hand. So, women should understand that regardless of whether they are married or not, you are all independent individuals and need sufficient personal space.
A state of complete relaxation and leisure
For most men, staying at home during their rest days is a very unwise and unpleasant behavior. Because for them, in addition to sleeping and necessary work, they always like to move - they are passionate about outdoor activities such as playing basketball and hiking. If it's not enough, it's just going to the gym or meeting a few friends to eat or drink together. Of course, there is no doubt that even at home, they still need music to accompany them. If a man wants to stay quietly, he will feel extremely bored.
Don't pay attention to details at home
Home is the most heartwarming place for a person, and also the most comfortable place for a person. There is no need to pay attention to small details here, just like outside, otherwise there will be no taste of home. And men think this way, they want to go home and take off their shoes and swing them with their feet instead of putting them in the shoe cabinet; Sleeping late in the morning without making the bed; Brush the dishes after using them up; There are many such things. Men are most afraid of being entangled in the details of life. So women's strict rules only make men nervous.
Speak up directly if you have any dissatisfaction
In marriage, it is inevitable for two people to have arguments and friction. If there are any complaints or dissatisfaction at this time, you can directly express them, and don't always beat around the bush. However, women just love to express their thoughts in a roundabout way, and no wise man can keep up with women's brains. Especially after conflicts arise, women adopt a "ignoring" attitude - not speaking, not having access to the phone, not eating, not staying in the same room, and other "cold violence". Actually, men hope to use simple methods to handle problems between two people.
Regardless of the financial power of the family
This is the most acceptable point for women, and it is also something that women strive for before getting married. The main reason why men do not compete for financial power with women is that they are too lazy to manage their finances and expend these efforts. Men in this state are the same before and after marriage. Because they think that personal finance is a very troublesome thing, it is better to put experience on hobbies.
It can be seen from this that in marriage, men are very difficult to manage. As a smart woman, she should know how to "raise" men.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
