Not all must love, not all must stay together!
There is a kind of love that can only be appreciated!
We live in a colorful world, where there are not only beautiful scenery, but also people with different personalities, temperament, and charm. In the long journey of life, you will meet and meet many people, and different people have different qualities and charm. Appreciation, liking, and love have become the most difficult yardstick to grasp.
Some people say that the most important thing for men and women is to know and love each other. In fact, in your life, there are far more than one person who can truly impress you, are they all going to love each other? It's very unrealistic. Love is a narrow emotion with dedication, beautiful but independent and exclusive.
When you love someone, you want to have him completely, including his thoughts, his emotions, and his entire person. But after each move, can you have it for a long time? There is no eternal thought, nor is there an eternal and unique emotion. So the important thing is not love, but appreciation. Different people and tastes can have different feelings about the same scene. The crystal clear snow mountains have the beauty of ice and jade, the rippling brooks have the beauty of nature, and the magnificent sea has the beauty of broadness and boldness. Each kind of beauty gives people a different shock!
Everyone has blood, flesh, and soul, and their bodies also exude different beauty. Each beautiful quality is attractive. Whenever you learn to look at the world and the people around you with an appreciative eye, you will face everything more confidently.
The weakness of human nature is the desire to possess, to possess everything that one likes. But people also have thoughts, which are constantly changing, and no emotion is eternal. Therefore, don't expect you to have a lot. Appreciate someone with a normal mindset, just like appreciating a painting, you will be very happy and calm.
When you use a normal state of mind to know and make friends with someone, you will have no personal thoughts, and you can freely communicate with each other. Your heart will also blend a little. Real friends will come to you in your appreciative eyes. Friendship is also an indispensable thing in life. When you have many sincere friends, you will feel the joy of life.
Having a good friend is much more peaceful than having a relationship. In one's life, every effort is a kind of injury. While friends are different, you can experience the pure beauty of human nature and the value of true feelings while having friends. Friendship is also a kind of love, a nobler and more sincere love.
There are thousands of people in this world, not all of them need to love each other, not all of them need to stay together, as long as they learn to appreciate.