Post Date December, 03 2023
An Italian weekly magazine conducted a survey of the causes of death of 100000 residents within two years and found that the death rates of isolationists and divorcees were significantly higher than those of those living in healthy couples. A nine-year study of 7000 residents of California in the United States found that lonely people have 2-3 times more deaths caused by heart disease than people with couples.
The relevant departments of Shanghai once held a "Golden Wedding Couple" selection activity, and in just a few months, they received over 2000 recommended materials. After careful selection, 66 "Golden Wedding Couples" were selected. Their average age is 77. 1 year old, with an average marriage age of 55. 8 years. We have investigated and interviewed some "golden wedding couples", whether they are leading cadres with heavy responsibilities or ordinary retired employees; Whether it's professors, experts, engineers with a high degree of education, or workers, farmers, or salespersons who are not very literate, they all say in one voice: "Couples should live from the beginning to the end, and mutual respect and dating are the first priority;"; The love of a husband and wife is only enriched in their later years, and only then can they speak of health and longevity.
Couple love can add psychological sweetness
The French thinker Rousseau once said in his famous book Emile, "If we can still maintain the sweetness of love after marriage, we will also enter heaven on earth." Couples love each other, and their happiness is harmonious, just like living a sweet life like heaven. It is not often said that "a life without love is like a tree without flowers or fruits." So a married life without love is like a tree without fragrant flowers or fruits. Only when elderly couples fly together, respect and love each other, can they be happy, happy, and beneficial to their physical and mental health. This is also the true meaning of life and health care for elderly couples. Comrade Xu Teli, an old revolutionary who died at the age of 92, was a childhood sweetheart of the Xiong family and later married. After that, Xu devoted himself to the revolution for a long time, and his husband and wife were far apart, but his feelings for his wife remained unchanged. After the founding of New China, Xu Teli assumed a senior leadership position in the Party, and immediately received his wife from Beijing. Xu Laojian resolutely opposes the immoral behavior of abandoning his wife and children due to changes in status and status, and liking the new and hating the old. After Mrs. Xu arrived in Beijing, Mr. Xu was deeply in love with her, and the love between husband and wife was as good as ever. When Mrs. Xu celebrated her 80th birthday, someone presented a banner with four large characters written on it: "Children together until old age.". Originally, they were married at the age of eleven or twelve. From childhood to Haoshou, they lived together for more than 60 years and enjoyed a harmonious life, making them ascend to the palace of longevity known as "children together until old age.".
Couple love can enhance happiness in life
Happiness is a beautiful feeling from the heart, a sincere feeling from the heart, and a warm sense of joy that emanates from the bottom of the heart. A psychologist said, "The light of love shines on our daily lives, just like lightning turns mediocre gullies and dense forests into mythical wonders." Couple love can make daily life covered with dazzling colors, enhance warm happiness, and make life comfortable and full of fun. This can avoid the cumulative stimulation of malignant emotions, help strengthen the immune function of the body, and help delay the aging of tissues and organs.
Couple love can increase physical harmony
A loving couple can create a harmonious living environment and lead a happy and harmonious family life. Medical research has proven that when a person's mental state is good, the body can secrete beneficial hormones, enzymes, acetylcholine, and other biochemical substances. These substances can regulate the flow of blood and the excitement of nerve cells in the body to the optimal state, keeping various organs and systems in good condition, which is undoubtedly very beneficial to the physical and mental health of the person. Moreover, an intimate and harmonious sexual life between couples can maintain youthful vitality in the psychological and physiological activities of the human body. Couples are the most caring people in the world. No matter how filial their children are, they cannot accompany each other day and night, while loving couples can provide each other with meticulous and considerate care. The so-called spouse is at the bedside, so there is no need to worry about illness. A solid heart is beneficial for resisting diseases and promoting recovery. In Yunnan, there are two hundred year olds, Zhao Zhen and Yang Jinbao, who rely on each other and care for each other. Once, his wife suddenly fell ill and seemed to be dying. Zhao Zhen waited in front of his wife's bed from morning to night, but others advised him to go out for a rest. However, he refused to leave his wife for a while. A few days later, his wife miraculously recovered from her illness. People say that it was Zhao Zhen's sincerity that moved "God." In fact, as the French philosopher Voltaire said, "Healthy love has strong vitality, and even if it is destroyed by storms, it will not wither.".
