Post Date December, 02 2023
Reporter: What is your attitude towards the phenomenon of naked marriage?
Article: Our parents and grandparents all married naked, which is a common phenomenon in their time. Their pursuit of marriage is to have a simple and happy life. However, for modern young people, marriage is infused with many material colors. In my opinion, naked marriage is somewhat irresponsible. I suggest that those who want to marry impulsively without material basis for pure love must have a rational analysis: when do they want to have children? How to improve the quality of life? What is the future plan? Marriage is not over with a certificate. Many problems are waiting for you to solve. Is it possible to solve them only with a passionate love?
Reporter: As a married person, for readers who want to get married, talk about the experience of "past people".
Article: In modern people's life, there will be some competition psychology. Even if adults can be aggrieved, they don't want to lose to their children at the starting line, so it is better to have a foundation for marriage, at least to solve the problem of food, clothing and shelter. I don't object to young people's pursuit of magnificent love, but if you want to get married, you should at least have the ability to feed yourself and your family!
Reporter: Many viewers said that the failure of naked marriage in the play was due to the parents of both parties. What do you think?
Article: In fact, this is just an inducement. The root of the problem is still the young people. Which mother doesn't want the children to have a good life? The key is to hope the children to have a good life. However, the two generations have differences on the issue of "how to live a good life". In misunderstanding and conflict, misunderstanding becomes numb, and finally the marriage fails.
Reporter: Some time ago, you were "divorced", and you didn't hesitate to swear on your microblog to protect your marriage. Is this a sign of protecting your family?
Article: It is the most basic obligation of a man to protect his wife and children from harm. Both husband and wife should be tolerant and trust each other, and men should maintain a modest attitude in family affairs. What the family rewards you is what no one, matter or thing can give you. For example, if you feel oppressed at work and encounter unsatisfactory places, as long as you come home to see your daughter, wife and a delicious dinner, all fatigue will be resolved instantly. The happiness at present is the most real and worth your utmost efforts to maintain, so I don't allow anything to destroy my family.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)
