Post Date December, 02 2023
My husband is recognized as a good husband, but she has no intention of finding her husband looking for a young lady. What should she do?
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My husband and I have been in love for many years. We have two children. My husband is very responsible for his family, loves children and is considerate of me. Our husband and wife live in harmony. However, I accidentally found that my husband went to see her every other time, and my world suddenly collapsed. I tried to hint at him, and he would be furious immediately, saying that I was suspicious and thoughtless. Must I catch him in bed before he will admit it? I can't bear such a scene. I can't bear the feelings of husband and wife for more than ten years.
The current situation makes me extremely painful. Do I pretend not to know and continue to maintain the stability and happiness of my family? But I cried and lost sleep in countless nights. I really can't understand how a good husband and father who is recognized by everyone can do such things? Where is his love for me? I felt extremely humiliated and tortured to live without dignity, but I knew he would not admit it when he died. He said that he would not let the family suffer any harm, and he would never make any principled mistakes. He always felt that he did it perfectly every time. I couldn't know. And my husband is very argumentative. Without conclusive evidence, it will only be a fruitless quarrel. What should I do?
Answer:
Do you love him? Do you want your children to be happy? What evidence do you have to prove that he is looking for a young lady? Do you want him to look for a young lady or a lover? Do you want his marriage to be broken or complete? Don't give a man any medicine. In this era, the majority of men are looking for ladies, and this is only a temporary physical need, not a life and emotional need. If you always look at men from your own point of view, even a perfect marriage has flaws.
Besides, you always stress men on the topic of no evidence. Such a life is unfortunate for everyone. What's your humiliation? Dignity and marriage. You always have to make a choice. A man who can guarantee you that your marriage will not be harmed at all. What are you worried about? Don't wait until the divorce to find out whether you are wrong or right.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)
