Almost all men have a "virgin plot", but some men are more obvious, and some are not so serious. Recently, psychologists have analyzed male emotions and pointed out that those "virginity complex" are extremely serious. Men who despise non-virgins are actually despised themselves.
1. Are you perfect?
When two people are together, if they love each other, they should not care about each other's past. Who has no imperfect side, there is no perfect person in the world. A man wants to marry a "girl of yellow flowers". Then ask yourself if you are a perfect man? Since it is not, don't pursue the perfection of the other party too much. Those who pursue perfection too much are actually very self-confident in their heart; To despise a non-virgin is to despise yourself!
2. Virgo plot is narrow
Virgo complex reflects the narrowness of a man. How can a narrow man bring happiness to women. In married life, no matter what a woman does, this man will treat a gentleman with the heart of a villain, and everywhere suspect that a woman is unfaithful to herself, which will lead to conflicts of one kind or another, the deterioration of which will eventually lead to the breakdown of the marriage.
3. Virgo plot reflects self
Virgo complex also reflects a man's self, self-centered, thinking that his own is right, and never listen to others' opinions. male chauvinism! If a woman marries such a man, waiting for her will be endless abuse and ridicule. Because whether you are doing right or wrong, you are wrong in his eyes, and you will not have a say.
4. Do you really love her?
The highest state of love is to have sex with it, but sex with it is not necessarily for love. Most of the people who love for sex are women, while most of the people who are difficult to love for sex are men. A man takes a woman's chastity seriously, which means that he focuses on sex rather than love. If you love a person, will you care if she is a "yellow flower girl"?
5. Virgo plot, should a woman marry
If the standard for a man to marry a wife is based on the "yellow flower girl", then I have every reason to say that the standard for a woman to marry a husband should be "whether there is a virgin complex". If a man does not marry a woman who is not a yellow flower, then a woman must not marry a man who has a virgin complex, even if the woman is a yellow flower girl. Because I have clearly stated that a man with a virgin complex should not be narrow and self-centered. Such a man is not worthy of women's love and marriage.
(Intern editor: Zhao Minqing)