Post Date December, 03 2023
A year ago, she found her husband cheating.
In those years, she followed him to the city where she had no relatives. In addition to him, her closest person in the city was her best friend.
In those painful and dark days, the only person she could talk to was her best friend. She told her friend that she found the trace of her husband's cheating. She cried, cursed and vented in front of her, and even she would tell her the unhappiness of her husband's bed brother and herself without reservation: "Now it seems that he is impotent. I can feel that he can't do what he wants, and I don't know which fox spirit I am thinking of!"
She listened, comforted and helped her make suggestions. She was always grateful and grateful: thank you, or I really don't know what to do.
Only once, my husband looked at her and sighed: "You are so stupid!
It wasn't until a chance that she really knew what her husband meant when he said she was stupid. Because that time, she found that the object of her husband's cheating was this girl friend.
This is a real case. Although this case is a little extreme, it is not uncommon to see the story of being robbed of a boyfriend or husband by a girlfriend in life. That's why there is such a sentence: fire prevention, theft prevention and girlfriends.
It is said that a friend's wife should not be deceived. Similarly, a friend's husband should not be bothered about it anyway. That's the truth, but the truth involves feelings, which always seems so pale.
Yes, the other party is your best friend, but she is a woman first. When facing the choice of friendship and love, women usually choose the latter.
There must be a woman here who wants to say: Do as you say, who dares to make friends of the same sex in the future? No, we can't stop eating because of choking. Friends should be made, and girlfriends should also be made, but we should have a sense of depth——
When you date your boyfriend or husband, don't always bring your best friend. What are you doing? Two people don't enjoy the world, but they have to bring electricity
Light bulb, this light bulb is a big living person with flesh and blood. The opposite sex attracts each other for a long time. You have created such a great opportunity for them. Isn't it normal to have feelings?
Some women do not know whether it is out of vanity or what. They love to brag with their girlfriends about how good their boyfriend or husband is, and show how they love themselves. They say that this man is the only one in the world. Who doesn't love a good man? What's more, this girl friend may be in a lonely and unbearable state. If you want to make a move on your man, it's your own fault.
Don't tell your friend about your boyfriend or husband's bad all day long, too much, she thought: I think this man is good. Since you are not rare, I can take over. Maybe your girlfriend thinks she has helped you.
Don't brag about how good your girlfriend is in front of your boyfriend or husband all day long. Some women are particularly confident about their own charm, and also want to test their own men. How can you say that if you are more attractive, then "sit still", it is also a man. You always put your own men into temptation, which is what is the heart of peace? This is not wisdom, this is "death".
In particular, don't do things like taking care of your boyfriend or husband when you leave for a month. Don't do it, just don't do it. There is no reason. Just say that he is a man and she is a woman. There is a lot of time to get close to each other this time, or even to be alone in a room. Can you say that?
Life is long, and it is hard to avoid loneliness. In general, girlfriends should not be less than men. If you cherish friendship and love and marriage, if you want them to exist in your life at the same time, and do not add chaos and congestion to you, then I will send you a sentence: "Haiyan, you can be more careful."
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
