My husband misses other women at night, and in the middle of the night, he sneaks off to a date while I'm asleep. I'm mad.

The relationship between my husband and I was developed through colleagues. The company has regulations that people who work with the company are not allowed to engage in sexual encounters to avoid affecting their work. After my husband and I got married to avoid embarrassment, I voluntarily resigned and left him alone. In the days when the company didn't have me, his work attitude was more focused, and the end of his struggle was much larger than before. After getting married, we started to plan our babies. He is getting busier and busier at work, so busy that he has no time to accompany me. I often complain to him, and he keeps apologizing to me for this.

Everything is going smoothly with the birth of the baby. When the baby was seven months old, the doctor said that he should move more. He would accompany me for a walk, stroll around the supermarket, and help me with my production. After having children, I began to be busy. The child sleeps irregularly and has to breastfeed at night.

My husband has to work during the day. In order not to affect him, I proposed that he sleep in the next bedroom and rest. He agreed. Occasionally, when he goes to the bathroom at night, he hears the movement in the room and comes to help me. "When he sees me busy, he will feel guilty and always say that when this period of work is completed, he will accompany me on a vacation and compensate me.". Today, even though the child is two years old, he is still busy and busy.

A woman who has been taking care of her children and doing household chores at home without anyone to replace her will be completely wiped out by her patience. When the children were older, we resumed our normal lives. "But I always feel something is wrong with him. I'm very sensitive to him reading or answering his phone.". Before, he always looked at his mobile phone and answered the phone in front of me, but now he always avoids me, either in the study or on the balcony.

"Hanging up the phone requires rushing out and explaining to me, 'There are some things I need to handle with the customer's phone call.'". Even if I cook all the dishes on the table, I will leave.

"I can still accept it twice at a time, and often this is the case. My heart is particularly agitated, and when I hear his phone ring, I feel like getting angry.". It was a night when I put the child to sleep and rested early. Over the years, because of taking care of the children, I have not dared to sleep very deeply. If there is any movement, I will get up to look after the children. As I was sleeping, I heard the sound of the door being gently opened. As soon as I reached out and touched my husband, he was gone. I opened my sleepy eyes and saw him tiptoeing towards the living room with his clothes in his hand.

I want to go out with you, but it's too late. He has already gone out. My family lives on the third floor, and the balcony in the living room can just see the entrance of the community. A woman came down from a car, and the two of them had no verbal communication, so they hugged and kissed each other when they got up. My husband suddenly thought of something, looked around for a moment, and followed the woman into the car.

My heart was about to collapse. After spending two years at home, taking care of the child and taking care of him, he cheated on me. Now think about his strange phone calls. They should all be from lovers. I don't want to face this reality, let alone indulge him, but I really don't know what to do?

Reply from the maintenance consultant:

At first, your emotional foundation was fairly good, but later on, when you gave birth to a baby, you focused solely on the child, and even shared rooms with your husband. Ostensibly good for him, in fact, it also provided conditions for his cheating. In the current situation, it is recommended that you communicate with him and listen to his thoughts. If it is a moment of obsession and infidelity, there is still hope of healing in your marriage. It is not easy to establish a marriage and family. If you say goodbye, you will not be reconciled.