Post Date December, 02 2023
Lie 1: I appreciate everything about you
We all hope that our husband has developed muscles like Schwarzenegger and a handsome face like Louis Koo, but speaking it out undoubtedly makes him ashamed of himself. You have to tell him that you like his meaty beer belly because it makes you feel warm in winter; You like to hear him snore like a big grizzly bear, which makes you feel safe.
You first "hand" your appreciation to him, and what he "praises" to you is willingly "singing with his wife". Remember, marriage is like a deposit, mutual appreciation is income, mutual friction is expenditure, and mutual tolerance is cost saving.
Lie 2: I like your friends
His fox friends and dog friends drink heavily and chew meat loudly, which are not pleasing to you, but they are very important to him. What should I do? Say you don't like them? He will think you are picky and that you don't give him face. So, don't hurt the relationship with him because of your displeasure. So, if you have to entertain those stinky men at home, learn to like them, or at least pretend to like them. Then, slowly use your schedule to nibble at his time and quietly reduce his "friendly visits" with his friends.
Lie 3: I Love Your Family
From the moment you cautiously stepped into his house, you saw the hostility in his mother's eyes, while your careless husband foolishly believed that you loved him and his mother loved him, so you and his mother could love each other. You take the time to tell him that you enjoy spending time with his family. Many experienced wives have summarized that to be friendly to their family, it is necessary to take action by meeting less and giving more gifts.
Lie 4: I also love sports
Men's enthusiasm for sports may never be understood by wives. He always watches sports games on TV as soon as he gets off work, and as soon as he goes to bed, he grabs the "Football News" and watches it with a flying expression. Tell him that you also enjoy sports and sit down to watch football with him. If one day you can't stand him watching football but can't see you, you can say to him, "I love sports, especially playing with you." Then you take him to the park for a jog and go to the vegetable market, and then drag him to the swimming pool for a swim and go back to his hometown... If he doesn't follow, you'll point it out to the point that he's a fake sports fan who just talks but doesn't practice. His face won't hang up, so he'll depend on you.
