Post Date December, 03 2023
That night, I realized that a man has no love for you, no matter what you do is wrong. He said that I am not qualified to speak of him, and at home, I have no voice or opinion. "He just wants a third child, and I can't compare to him in any way. Since I married him in 2004, I have been helping in the store he runs and taking care of two children. My efforts have been seen by everyone in the neighborhood, as well as customers. In the past seven years, unless I am sick, I have not had a rest during the day.". My parents-in-law also helps me look after the store. I don't think I should let my parents-in-law grow old and work so hard.
As a result, he has been having an affair with a married woman since 2008. On August 5th, 2009, they had an affair. In October, the woman's husband came to visit, but they never stopped. On July 14th, 2010, the woman's husband had no choice but to divorce.
After the divorce, the woman stayed in a hotel with my husband for a month, and then rented a room. In November, my husband bought a house, a diamond ring, and a lot of cosmetics for the woman. They officially lived together. When things were good, he would go home one day without going home, and when things were bad, he would return home a few days or more. When he came back in a good mood, he would ignore me, and if things were not good, he would ignore me. I just tried to persuade him, but he didn't take it seriously.
"I still have feelings for my two children, and I always hoped that he would change his mind. Until that night, when he hit me and hit me to the death, I was in despair. I never thought of a person I would treat me like this with my whole life. If I had something wrong with him, and he treated me like this, I could still understand.". "We used to love each other, but now he's wiping out what I've paid for another woman. When I couldn't hire workers in the store, I worked as a delivery worker, pushing a cart to deliver soda for six months.". To this day, he said that I had done business, but business is still difficult to do, not just for me. In fact, it wasn't he who used the money on that woman. Our business can live on our daily expenses and won't lose.
"These two days, I had thought before that we would only get to this point. Both of us were wrong. At first, I indulged him too much, and it had something to do with the environment in which we lived. I visited the store every day, and he was not interested in the business in the store. Therefore, he had a lot of time to play outside, and happened to meet the woman who wanted to play when he was free. At first, they did play, but later, I always felt that they had problems, so I quarreled with him.", I also checked his mobile phone information. It was an affair, and he felt that the woman understood him. Besides, the woman's husband also talked to me, but they don't know why. Do they think they only understand each other?
My husband has said that it's okay if I don't check, but I don't think they do play together as soon as they have time, and they also go to Hong Kong together. The woman is in the bank opposite my store, so when they go, I know that who can bear to be busy in the store while my husband goes to play with other women? "I have talked to my husband many times, but what he meant was that he was just playing and I made a mountain out of a molehill. Later on, my husband really fell in love with that woman and was not good to me, and I could feel a person who loved you or not. As for me, keep arguing and say that he shouldn't be like this, I'm an old woman and shouldn't be like this to me.".
"When two people get along, if there are any problems, they should speak out their ideas and communicate well. We didn't have any problems. At first, we told me that there was nothing wrong and it wouldn't affect the family. Later, when I quarreled with him, he didn't say anything. He thought I was making trouble for nothing. When he cohabited with that woman, I also knew there was no way to separate them, but I always thought he could at least know he was a person with a wife and children, and at least you had responsibilities and obligations,", "He didn't, as soon as the woman called him, he would go. He was at the woman's side. If I called him, he wouldn't answer. Even on his wedding anniversary, he wouldn't return on the eve of last New Year's Eve.".
On the 29th of the Lunar New Year, he spent the night there. I wanted to forget it and let him go. He came home on the 30th of the lunar New Year. It was my birthday on the first day of the lunar New Year, but he came home at 4 pm on the 30th of the lunar New Year. The family had a reunion dinner and after I went to wash the dishes, he went to the woman's place. I sent a message to him and told him that after I helped the child take a shower, we went to the flower market at 8 o'clock. After I finished my work, I called him and he wouldn't answer, Later, the more I thought about it, the more angry I became. I went to the place where they lived and rang the doorbell. They were at home and didn't open the door. Because I first rang the doorbell, it didn't ring, and then it rang again, I determined that they were at home, but after I rang for an hour, they ignored me, and I called him and he didn't answer. Finally, he didn't come back until 4 pm on New Year's Day.
After the Chinese New Year, I still hope again and again that he can still love us and don't hurt me again. However, the first time he chose to hurt me, in March of this year, he became ill and could only eat liquid food. I took care of him wholeheartedly every day, but he still remembered the woman. They seemed to have quarreled, "He sent a message to the woman, 'After so many days, are you still angry? I'm not going to see you, I'm just too sick.'" In fact, this fight has sobered me up. ".
"Since fighting, he hasn't been home for the night, and the woman doesn't have to go to work, so he hasn't come back during the day. And I, after much consideration, still can't let him go emotionally. What should I do?"?
reply:
Men sometimes have such a virtue that they often like to travel between their wives and lovers, never feeling tired. Even when they are tired, they come back to take offense at their wives and turn around and run to their lovers to pay attention. "You can call it disrespect, or you can call it immorality.".
The reason why your husband is so cheap is, in addition to the inherent greed in his bones, the first reason is that you are too accommodating and not cruel enough to him, as you said, too indulgent to him. Secondly, you are too weak and too kind. You should know that people who are good are deceived by others. Of course, it depends on who you meet. When you meet a responsible man, he will treat your weakness as pity, while when you meet a man of low character, he will treat your kindness as a good bully. Third, it's because you were clumsy and didn't choose what was the best man. Perhaps what you valued was not his character, but something else. It's a bit of a hindsight to say this, but it's not really true. As things stand, it's really difficult for you to continue. Once you go your separate ways, you should learn this lesson and keep your eyes wide open and never let such scum men approach you again.
In short, your man currently has no guilt or regret for you. When he was hospitalized for a serious illness, you were the original person to serve him carefully, but all his focus is still on that lover, and he has no gratitude for you. Such a werewolf man makes people feel cold and hopeless. Since that's the case, why should we stick our hot face against his cold butt!
Personally, there are three types of men that women cannot marry: one is men who have domestic violence and beat their wives; The second is a man who is addicted to gambling and refuses to change after repeated education; The third is a man who falls into extramarital affairs without regret. "Your husband has at least two of these three points, so do you still have the need to cherish him?"? Throw him away like garbage before it's too late! There are so many good men in the world, why should they seek perfection through their own grievances? What makes me puzzled and angry is that he treats you so badly, and you even want to miss him, saying that you can't let him go emotionally. Isn't it pitiful and pathetic!
