Not only do women feel uncomfortable for a few days every month, but men also have physiological periods. Of course, men's performance of "coming to the holiday" every month is quite different from women's. So, if a man suddenly ignores you without any reason, and is easily sulky and ignored when he is upset, don't think that the man has an affair or doesn't love you anymore. It's probably just his physiological period. How to judge whether a man is "coming to aunt"? Here are six signals.
1. fidget
When the physiological period comes, men will show restlessness. When you ask him what happened, he says he doesn't want to talk, and you have been puzzled. Fidgety is the expression of a man's inner anxiety. He doesn't know why he is upset, but he just can't control himself.
2. Don't know what to do
For a time, men didn't know what they were going to do or what they needed. He always sits and reads, but he always turns the book around; Or watch TV, but you can't find what you want to see if you tune the TV station around. When going out for dinner or shopping, the usually assertive person also seems to be indecisive, so you can choose for yourself. Men who are not aware of themselves and are more difficult to understand others during their physiological period, so don't let him make up his mind, let him stop for a while.
3. Apathy
He suddenly became cold, even cold, and didn't take the initiative to speak when he saw you. When you try to approach him, he feels not used to it and will give you a bad look, thinking that you have affected him. He who is usually active and courteous is gone, and becomes cold and heartless, as if he can't see you. Let him be quiet. Don't disturb him. The physiological period will pass.
4. Unclear words
As long as you are careful, you can find that for a period of time, the rhythm and intonation of men's speech become uneven, the voice is low, the speech is unclear, and may even be accompanied by stuttering. Don't think he has become stupid after being hit by something. In fact, it is just the most common physiological period. When a man is in the physiological period, his nerves will become tense for no reason, and his words will change under the tense situation. Don't think he has done anything wrong to you.
5. Anger
At ordinary times, he takes good care of you, and doesn't let you suffer any injustice or shed half a tear. However, he changed. He was angry from time to time, or worried about some obscure little things. The cheerful smiling face could never appear on his face again, and he frowned all day. When a man is in the physiological period, he will have endless fire in his heart. A little trifle can become the fuse, ignite the raging fire in his heart, and be furious.
6. Smoke stuffy
Men always regard smoking and drinking as the best antidote to depression. When they are unhappy, they either go out to drink and have fun with their friends, or smoke alone, and sometimes take a long breath. He hoped to get out of the trough of the physiological period as soon as possible and recover his optimistic self as soon as possible, but he could not cope with it, so he smoked and tried his best.
When the husband's psychological cycle comes, the wife should not try to pull him back. A woman should use this time to do something she once wanted to do, give him freedom and let him wander away from your attention. After those days, he will come back by himself.
You need to make your husband feel rich in life. Don't let him focus on career gains and losses. In order to make the husband realize that there are many other fun and goals in life besides success and fame, the best way is to let the husband try as many ways of leisure and entertainment as possible, whether it is tourism, fitness, collection or piano, chess, calligraphy and painting.