Post Date December, 03 2023
I am a 27-year-old mother. My husband is not good to me. I dream of leaving this family, but I can't leave the child. If I divorce, the child will not belong to me. I wanted to leave early, but every time I quarreled, I tried to resist the desire to leave in order to see my children every day. To stay is pain, to leave is also pain.
I was raised by my grandparents when I was young. After my grandpa died in 2011, I began to contact my mother. She is a very strong person. I married to another place alone, and no one told me. But when I told her too much about my husband, she also pulled me black. No one loves me. I think if I have more courage and despair, I will commit suicide.
reply:
As a 27-year-old adult woman and a mother of a child, we should know how to respect life and cherish ourselves. In fact, your life is not only for yourself, because you don't belong to yourself, you have your own children, your own mother (although you have a short contact with your mother, she didn't care about you since childhood, and even very indifferent to you, but her blood always flows in your veins), your own relatives, if you choose to have light life, are you worthy of your grandparents who pulled you up from childhood? Do they want you to create such a situation by serving you with shit and urine and making you grow up? Calm down and think about it. Nowadays, there are many people who are unhappy in marriage. Do you want to go to extremes like you? Wang Baoqiang has encountered such a difficult situation in his marriage. He is surrounded by so many media and viewers, and under such great pressure, including the fact that he has to borrow money to fight a lawsuit with a lawyer in terms of financial resources. He has no sense of withdrawal or extreme choice.
In the face of immediate difficulties, do not flinch easily, let alone escape from reality. I know how hard it is for a woman to live if her marriage is not happy and her husband is not good to herself. But as a woman in the new era, we need to live up to the style of women in the new era. We have knowledge, culture, a pair of our own hands, and the increasingly perfect legal system to protect us. Why should we be so weak and lose our courage in marriage?
What you have met in this marriage, what you have done in this process, and what you have won for yourself, you don't want to live. Don't say anything that makes people feel unproductive. Just say it in a moment of restraint. Don't use your temporary will and foolishness to put it into a sad and meaningless period that makes future generations full of laughter.
If you have full courage to die, I believe you also have full courage to live. You must live a life to show yourself. If marriage is unhappy, choose to leave; We should strive for the custody of children; Without economic income, just go to work; As for other people's behind the scenes, it's just to do something wrong. Find a way to live yourself well. Women, when you have an independent personality, a dominant spirit, and a self-sufficient economy, you will be free, because you don't need to depend on anyone to live, and you don't need to look at others' faces.
Now you just don't want to try to do anything and can't do anything. You just complain about yourself and are wrapped up in your own depression. If you can't get out of yourself, you will be "killed" by yourself. It has nothing to do with others. It's your own narrow mind. I hope you will summon up courage, face the real situation, change your mind and get out of the confusion as soon as possible. Anyway, we should understand that it doesn't matter if anyone doesn't love you, but we must love ourselves and don't give up easily!
Also, you not only lack love, but also lack friends. Open your heart to accept others and make more intimate friends!
