Post Date December, 03 2023
The Chinese Academy of Social Sciences and the Social Science Literature Publishing House jointly released "Analysis and Prediction of China's Social Situation in 2012". When discussing the current marriage situation and changes in China, it was pointed out that the number of registered marriages in the country continues to decrease, and the age of first marriage has been significantly delayed. According to statistics, in 2011, the age of first marriage in Beijing was 28.2 years for men and 26.1 years for women. In the same year, the average age of first marriage for men in Shanghai was 31.1 years, while the average age of first marriage for women was 28.4 years. People who marry late believe that being successful in their careers, owning a house, owning a car, and having a stable foundation before getting married is a sign of being responsible for themselves and their loved ones.
However, according to a report by the "Online Doctor of Medicine" in the United States, a survey shows that women aged 25 and men aged 27 are the most ideal age for marriage. Previous studies have pointed out that 23 years old is the best age for the first "sexual relationship". Getting married too early or too late can have adverse effects. Researchers say that people who marry prematurely often lack a clear awareness of the responsibilities and obligations that marriage imposes on individuals through passion and impulse; Those who marry too late may become famous by clarifying what they want from their marriage. However, this also increases its utilitarian dimension. In addition, the later you get married, it can also affect both parties' reproductive and even sexual abilities.
Ma Xiaonian, chairman of the Professional Committee of Sexual Medicine of the Chinese Sexuality Society and professor of sexual medicine at Yuquan Hospital affiliated to Tsinghua University, believes that "a man should marry when he is big, and a woman should marry when she is big" is an absolute truth. "I often encounter this situation in my work. Older men (over 35 years old) are particularly prone to sexual dysfunction when they first get married, especially those without any sexual experience. In fact, the truth is very simple. A young man who wants to learn to ride a bicycle is easy, not afraid of bumps or bumps, while learning to ride a bicycle at the age of 40 is inevitably clumsy and not so smooth."
Men are between the ages of 18 and 22, experiencing a peak period of sexual responsiveness and sexual ability in their lifetime. At this time, most of them have strong sexual desire and are in the stage of sexual hunger and thirst. The occurrence of sexual fantasies is urgent and frequent, making men also eager to seek heterosexual partners. In their 30s, the urgency of male sexual impulses decreases, they are still interested in sexual pursuit, and their response to sexual stimulation is still faster, but the frequency of orgasms is no longer as frequent. By the age of 40, unless there is abnormal stimulation, the general male cannot perform continuous ejaculation quickly, and their sexual pleasure begins to change significantly. No wonder some people say that 40 years old is the age of puberty, and 50 years old is the youth of old age. At this point, the characteristics of men's sexual response change to diffuse and generalized feelings that extend throughout the body, and the pursuit of orgasm gradually becomes less urgent.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
