Post Date December, 03 2023
"Children's communication is encouraged between couples." Bai Jingxiang, a health times expert, usually has their own way of speaking. However, for married couples, this communication gap sometimes translates into pointless arguments.
For example, if a wife fails to do something well, her husband will say, "Look at you, like a young child, stupid!" The wife's strong self-esteem has been hit. "My husband was surprised that when he was a child, his father often said this to him at home, but he didn't feel much about it. He felt like his wife was making a mountain out of a molehill.". A dispute just started
In family communication, there is a technique called "peer dialogue", which is used to handle this childlike thinking dialogue. "It means that couples should try to communicate in an equal tone when talking to each other. If the wife uses childlike language to flirt with you, as a husband, don't be too serious about using adult thinking to criticize the other person as" not grown up "or" not sensible. ""; "When the wife speaks in a normal adult capacity, the husband also needs to stop speaking to the child.". "Peer to peer dialogue" techniques not only make your wife feel that you have a great sense of humor, but also make both parties feel undifferentiated communication and enhance feelings.
Childlike thinking is not only a clever way for a wife to bring her husband closer, receive attention and "protect", but also make life full of childlike fun. It can also be used as a good way to apologize and acknowledge mistakes. For example, a bad smile or a pout is an understanding of a husband's "criticism.". Women's answers sometimes do not require language. One action can both preserve dignity and convey a message to your husband. Therefore, as a husband, you should also try to experience childlike body language.
Life won't always be smooth. Isn't the occasional childlike games that wives play with, such as coquettishness, dependence, and pouting, just the adjustment of life and the affirmation of family stability and happiness? Husbands only need to understand, cooperate, and understand. There is no need to make a fuss or worry that your wife will really become overly dependent and irresponsible. "If a husband finds out that his wife is acting too spoiled, he can also express your" warning "to her through" peer to peer dialogue ", and the wife will naturally understand your meaning and end her game.". But remember, be sure to save face for your wife!
