Post Date December, 03 2023
In the busy work and daily life, people often overlook expressing love to those around them who are important to you. If you are not sincere enough at first, it will be several years since you realize this. If your relationship has become flat, here are some ways to help you show them your love.
1. Listen to each other
Chatting with others, discussing news, or chatting with friends online are all easy things. When your partner wants to talk to you, you should actively listen, stop what you are doing, and focus your attention here. Listen to what she wants to express, understand what she cares and worries about, or what she truly likes. Make some nods or eye contact to indicate that you are paying attention here.
2. Prepare unexpected gifts
You must have given gifts to your loved ones, such as on their birthdays, Christmas, or special occasions like Valentine's Day. But have you ever given a gift on a regular day? For both the recipient and the giver, an unexpected gift brings the most heartfelt joy.
However, this gift doesn't need to cost too much. For example, giving them their favorite chocolate, a bouquet of small flowers, or a book you know they like... and so on, without much money, you will find that this is also a great way to say 'I love you'.
3. Proactively doing household chores
For most people, a highly popular gift is to help with household chores. If your partner often cleans the kitchen, you can go and surprise her by cleaning the kitchen for her. If you are constantly suffocated by nagging, then don't ask anything and just go clean. You will gradually realize that there are many small ways to make some people feel comfortable on that day and let them know their position in your heart.
4. Make a special dinner
If you still eat takeout on Friday night, why not give yourself a chance to get started? Prepare a special dinner for your lover, you don't need to find any special occasions, nor do you need to be on Valentine's Day or other anniversaries. Including her favorite food, take a few minutes to tidy up the table and play some music. I guarantee you will remember this evening for a long time, even the ordinary thing of sitting on the sofa, which you will still remember vividly.
5. Leave a note in an unusual place
Perhaps your life has become so busy that you find that your schedule rarely includes time with your spouse or children. Why not try leaving a note in some places to give them a surprise.
As you may know, mothers leave a small note in their backpacks for their children. You can also start here, or you can try leaving a note by the kettle, on the refrigerator door, on the pillow, on the computer screen, etc. Perhaps it can become a "competition" mini game between you, competing who posted the most hidden place!
6. Writing Love Poems
One way to say 'I love you' that has been passed down to this day is to write a love poem. You don't need to become Shakespeare, just find sincere and primitive ways to express your love. Try not to use vulgar words and be sure to write something meaningful to yourself, such as the way she smiles.
7. Embrace
Body language contains tremendous energy, and just a hug can make a loved one present a sweet smile on her face. Whether it's sitting on the sofa hugging your lover or letting your child fall asleep peacefully on your arms, giving her a hug and warmth is the perfect way to express love for her.
8. Hand in hand
When relationships become comfortable and familiar, things like hugging and holding hands are often overlooked. Try holding your lover's hand while shopping, or holding her hand at the dining table. This kind of physical contact will make your relationship more intimate. This is particularly important when you are discussing a difficult argument or issue. When your partner is in a bad mood and feeling down, holding her hand is a tangible manifestation of support for her.
I believe there are many ways to express your love, without the need to say the words' I love you '. Do you have any good ideas yourself?
