Taking American wages, living in a big house in the UK, eating Chinese food, and marrying a Japanese wife are the four major pleasures that Americans refer to as men. Nowadays, this standard is accepted by many Chinese men, who are desperately sweating and striving towards their goals.
The Four Great Enjoyments have drawn a schematic diagram for the life of ordinary people. You were not born with a golden key, you did not have the luck to win a big prize, you did not have a forest of trees to enjoy the cool... So you can only work hard and then work hard.
You must grow and learn healthily with a quarter of your life, save money with the knowledge and skills you have learned (usually exhausting your brain and eyes), and spend the last quarter of your life on that hard-earned money.
The first three things are relatively easy to handle. If you have the ability, patience, and diligence, you can earn American wages. If you win a big prize and get a windfall, you can live in a big house in the UK and eat Chinese food. The most difficult thing is to find a Japanese wife. Chinese men and American men are heroes with similar ideas, and both believe that Japanese wives are the best among wives.
Previously, there was Pujie and his Japanese wife Saga Hao. Despite their political marriage, Pujie was still attracted by this beautiful, gentle, intelligent, and talented woman. Saga Hao not only has an outstanding appearance, but also resembles the popular female star Caodi Miko, whom Pu Jie admires the most. So, Saga Hao became the first woman to embrace Pu Jie's heart.
Later, there was Kong Lingwen, the son of Nie Weiping. He was a very bold and unrestrained person who did not care about small matters. The Japanese wife he married is called Kiyoya Kobayashi, a very pleasant name. She is kind-hearted, very gentle, and does well in household chores. She is a relatively traditional Japanese woman. Kong Lingwen gave her a high evaluation: "She also supports my work very much and often cares about me, which makes me feel very confident and allows me to focus on playing chess and work with peace of mind." This is the reason why Kong Lingwen decided to marry her.
The woman you admire is tea. Although tea is originally from China, the tea ceremony is the best among the Japanese. Why do people consider Japanese wives as the four greatest pleasures of life when women are originally good in China? The woman who makes people intoxicated is alcohol. Does a Japanese wife really have the ability to both make men addicted and intoxicated? A man who claims to understand women well said that Japanese women don't make men upset, they are very ironclad, warm, and secure.
How many Japanese women will marry into China? It's too rare, men can only lower their standards and find wives in Chaozhou. I have seen a typical Chaozhou wife who serves her husband like an emperor, while she is like an old lady, so willing and blooming in the dust.