Mature men often have mature thoughts and actions, which means they know how to handle difficult problems. In the workplace, they have 26 "military rules" and should respect those who do not like you.
1. Dress up should not be annoying. If you don't look good, make yourself talented; If you don't have talent, then always smile.
2. Temperament is the key. If fashion is not good, I would rather be simple.
3. When shaking hands with someone, you can hold them for a while longer. Sincerity is treasure.
4. There is no need to use 'I' as the subject in everything.
5. Don't borrow money from friends.
6. Don't "force" guests to look at your family album.
7. When fighting with someone, please sit next to the driver first.
8. Persist in saying good things about others behind their backs, don't worry that these good words won't reach the ears of the parties involved.
9. When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you only smile.
10. If you are performing or giving a speech, if there is only one person listening, you should continue with your heart, even if no one cheers you, because this is your path to success and the cradle of your success. You don't want to see people succeed, but want you to succeed.
11. When a colleague is sick, visit him. It's natural to sit on his hospital bed and wash your hands carefully when you go home.
12. Don't let everyone know everything about the past.
13. Respect those who don't like you.
14. Focus on things rather than people; Or be ruthless towards things, be affectionate towards people; Or putting oneself first and doing things second.
15. Self criticism always makes people believe, while self praise is not.
16. Nothing can improve your bowling performance more than onlookers. So, don't be stingy with your cheers in daily life.
17. Don't take others' kindness for granted. Be grateful.
18. The "starlings" on the banyan tree were talking, only talking but not listening, resulting in a mess. Learn to listen.
19. Respect the masters in the reception room and the aunts engaged in hygiene.
20. Remember to start with 'we' when speaking.
21. applaud for everyone who comes on stage to sing.
Sometimes it's important to ask knowingly: Your diamond ring is expensive, isn't it! Sometimes, even if you want to ask, you can't ask, such as: How old are you?
23. When there are many words, one must lose, and when there are many people, one should speak less.
24. Change the unexported 'no' to: 'This takes time', 'I'll do my best', 'I'm not sure', 'I'll call you when I make a decision'
25. Don't expect everyone to like you, it's impossible. Making most people like you is a sign of success.
Finally, of course, one must like oneself.