Post Date December, 03 2023
Thirty years of age is the best time for men to talk about getting married, and the woman they are looking for is probably around 25 years old. According to scientific analysis, the difference between men and women is 3 to 5 years old, which can make the aging process of men and women's faces more consistent. This way, there is no problem that men age slower than women, and two people can enjoy the romance of "growing old together" with peace of mind.
The essence of love between the sexes has been unequal from ancient times to the present. When a man meets a beautiful woman, he can do anything, otherwise there would be no story of "not loving the beautiful woman". Of course, this doesn't include playboys who never understand what love is - they don't think about the end point, they think about conquering the next mountain. Fortunately, most men just want to have a true love, which is enough because it is already difficult. Finding a wife and a woman is a necessary proposition in the life of a serious man.
A few days ago, I met an old cultural person who was also an idol in the publishing industry in Hong Kong. Although he is nearly half a century old, he still has long hair and elegant demeanor. I thought such a man must have read everything about men and women, so I asked him about his views on women using my identity as a descendant.
"Actually, men all like good-looking women. Although kindness and kindness are the most important, men are definitely animals that visually control the brain." - Even when they reach the age of "not exceeding the norm," they cannot ignore the temptation of the three dimensions, he continued, "But when it comes to the ultimate woman's dream, I think it's related to age."
Indeed, we all know that first love is extremely beautiful, but it can hardly be achieved. The reason lies in the fact that boys at that time didn't know what kind of woman they wanted - even the standards of beauty and ugliness were vague. As an example, the other day at a classmate's gathering, I found that the "class flower" we were after had no beauty at all, and even degenerated into being married with the ugliest girl in our class. It can be seen that our aesthetic ignorance in those days.
When a man finally knows how to distinguish beauty, he begins to make mistakes in his outlook on life. Super male chauvinists feel that everything is okay as long as they like it, regardless of their family environment or educational background. Therefore, many love tragedies are born when a couple enters society. "Male chauvinism cannot bear the burden of life, and there is only a sad breakup.". Personally, I believe that men often suffer more from this kind of thing - it's really tragic to have to carry on for many years and start over again.
I remember a boss saying to me, "Twenty year old men have nothing, but twenty year old girls have everything; forty year old men have everything, but forty year old women have nothing." So he advised me to focus on striving for everything at forty instead of playing with emotions at twenty. Therefore, some good people have summarized the following definition: According to the current development of our society, a man - who excludes the rich childe, the playboy who regards love as a game, and various other men who do not take marriage as the end point of love - is the most suitable object for love:
Women who earn their own living - financially independent women generally have a good mentality and the ability to think rationally;
A woman who looks a bit better than herself - this can satisfy a man's vanity, but not too much, otherwise a woman will feel that she has lost her marriage and will bully you for a lifetime;
Women with Consistent Aesthetics - If you like to watch science fiction movies, don't find a woman who likes to watch art movies; If you like Faye Wong, don't find a girl who likes Li Yapeng, even though Wang and Li are already married, that's not enough.
The above three suggestions are for men in their 30s - this is the best time for men to talk about marriage. The woman they are looking for is probably around 25 years old. According to scientific analysis, the difference between men and women is 3 to 5 years old, which can make the aging process of men and women's faces more consistent, so that there will be no problem that men age slower than women, and two people can enjoy the romance of "growing old together" with peace of mind.
However, with this plan, the realization of men's ultimate dream about women is still fraught with dangers. The Hong Kong cultural elder said, "Just like me, today, there is only one principle that can be used to find the right woman, that is, 'Whoever likes me, I like who'."
