I'm worried that my boyfriend will be robbed by his brother's sister. What should I do

My boyfriend is three years younger than me, and their families don't know. I think he loves me very much. I'm a graduate student, and he's a sophomore in a three school. "I have been together for more than a year, and the girl who has had a good relationship with him during this period will no longer contact me as long as I become jealous. He is particularly concerned about my feelings.". But one of his brother's sisters studied in Tsinghua University, and he himself especially liked Tsinghua University. His brother's father and his mother worked together. Recently, the girl needed a deposit certificate to go abroad. His brother asked him to help, and his mother also helped. The father of his brother hopes that the girl will come back to work. If the girl comes back, it is said that she can earn 200000 yuan per year as a graduate of Tsinghua University, but I will definitely earn 100000 yuan per year when I come back to work. Now I am worried that he and his family will eventually let him marry that Tsinghua girl because of these reasons? She is from Tsinghua University; She is only one year older than him; She will work better than me when she comes back. I hope you can give me some advice. Thank you, Miss Pang.

reply:

Hello, my opinion about love on campus is neither to refuse it nor to take it too seriously, because love on campus has a large number of variables, and the possibility of achieving positive results in the end is not very high. Especially if you are in a brother-in-law relationship or a long-distance relationship, it is difficult to implement any of these situations, let alone add them together. To do this, you need to be fully prepared mentally. Don't worry about the possibility that your boyfriend may be taken away by others first. Instead, you should carefully consider how likely it is that you two will be together in the future, and whether it is suitable for you to be together? Where will their respective destinations be after graduation, if they expand their careers first? "You're just focusing on something that hasn't happened yet, eating the jealousy of other girls, and worrying that you won't get the final result you want, which is somewhat unrealistic.".

Since you have developed a sense of crisis in front of this love, you should objectively view this relationship and do what you need to do now. Your current focus is on learning, as well as learning knowledge and culture to lay a solid foundation for entering society in the future. As for the love between two people, it should be ranked after learning and handled as a hobby. If you handle it well, everyone will be happy. If you fail to handle it well, it should be considered as an internship, Give the other person back to emotional sparring. In fact, you now feel that you particularly care about and engage in this relationship. When you graduate and break up in the future, go your separate ways, and enter society, with your vision expanding and your mind fully mature, you may reconsider this relationship, and even think it's childish and funny. If you don't believe it, you will follow the footsteps of time and let time prove it. After all, people are constantly changing and growing, unless you are willing to stop, stop in the past, and feel for yourself.