"Rome wasn't built in a day." In fact, there are certain signs that the love between husband and wife is gradually declining. Common signs include the following:
1、 "The interest in sexual life decreases, and various excuses are used to avoid intimacy with the other party. Actions that express love are handled in a" routine "manner.".
2、 Temper becomes irritable and often criticizes the other person for small matters.
3、 Feeling impatient with what your partner is saying, losing interest, and deliberately acting contrary to their partner's wishes.
4、 Intentionally self isolating, reducing activities that both parties can participate in together. Develop personal interests and exclude the other person from their own circle of activities.
5、 Minimize the time spent with your partner. Such as prolonging working hours, deliberately wandering outside after work.
6、 He has become increasingly interested in friends of the opposite sex, and even publicly expresses his admiration for other members of the opposite sex.
7、 Gradually reduce enthusiasm and resist the emotional expression of your partner, with a cold and heartless appearance.
8、 Fierce quarrels and violent actions frequently occur, and even in public, there is no taboo to argue with your partner, and the severity of the quarrel is increasing.
9、 The self centered mindset is becoming increasingly evident, considering only one's own needs and no longer thinking about the other person.
When the above situation occurs in a husband and wife relationship, it indicates that the alarm bell for emotional breakdown has sounded. At this point, it is important to find the cause, bridge the gap, and not allow it to develop beyond control.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)