Post Date December, 03 2023
The relationship between men and women looks quite complex, but it's actually simple to say. At least the relationship between men and women conforms to the following three rules.
The more caring, the more humble
From now on, be smart and don't ask others if they want you or love you? "If I want to miss you or love you, I will naturally tell you, but if I say it from your mouth, others will be very proud and don't care about you.". Don't care too much about some people or things, let it be, and face it with the best attitude. This is the way the world is: often in front of the things we care most, we have the least value. That person suddenly stopped contacting you, which is normal; That person suddenly contacted you again, which is normal. This doesn't explain anything.
There is no secret to success, if there are any, there are only two: the first is to persevere in the end and never give up; The second is when you want to give up, please come back and follow the first secret—— Once Churchill's water flows deep, it cannot make a sound. Once a person's feelings are deep, they also appear weak.
Management Psychology
"If a person is worth 8000 yuan, don't bargain, just pay him 7500 yuan.". Even if he saved 500 yuan, it actually cooled his heart, and when he had a better chance, he would leave. On the contrary, if you pay him 10000 yuan, he will work twice as hard for you. Remember, it's better to spend two people's money recruiting a good person than to spend one person's money recruiting two bad people. McDull said, "There is something to say, don't wait for the other person to understand, because the other person is not you and doesn't know what you want. In the end, it can only be sadness and disappointment, especially feelings.".
Many couples quarrel, basically based on a psychological roadmap: 1. Women are very angry because of certain words and deeds of men; The man began to explain and thought, "Is it necessary to make such a fuss?"? 3. Women constantly try to emphasize not the thing itself, but the attitude of men; 4. The man thinks, "I'm starting to dig up old accounts again, but I haven't finished yet." The woman thinks, "Why are men so irresponsible now?"; 5. The two forgot why they quarreled, but neither of them was willing to give in first. If you can treat work as exercise, busyness as enjoyment, setbacks as growth, losses as gains, misfortunes as nightmares, and success as past events, then your life will feel extremely comforting and comfortable!
Psychologically, most people only get angry with people who are safe. Because within that safety level. You subconsciously know that the other person won't leave you. Nonsense is a form of dependence. Most people, for the most part, can only rely on themselves. "I don't have any background, I haven't met any distinguished people, and I haven't attended any good schools, all of which are okay.". The key is, which path you are determined to take, what kind of person you want to become, and how you are prepared to deal with your laziness. Move forward, believe in dreams, and persist. Only in this way can you have the opportunity to prove yourself and find the dignity you want.
Zen psychology
Really anxious, fake angry; Thermal issues, cold treatment; Dare to touch hard, don't touch hard; Don't seek trouble, don't be afraid of it; Take a straight path and turn a lively corner; Work hard and you will rest; Prioritize things; Never regret past events; Don't compare current affairs; What you gain will be lost; What is lost, let it go; When you achieve your ambition, don't forget your mind; When frustrated, do not grieve; Always be lenient and in a good mood; How confused and happy; Try your best and be calm. Psychological Skills: Refusing things you don't want to do at the beginning. People always try to maintain a consistent image in others' minds. "We always try our best to accomplish the things we have promised, otherwise there will be psychological pressure and people will lose faith.". It is said that those who promise lightly seldom believe. So if you don't want to do something, you must refuse it from the beginning. If you don't drink, don't take a sip.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)
