Is the difference between sex and sexual intercourse equal to sex?
The response is naturally negative. Because human sexuality is not a single way, but a variety of ways, and the way of sex is not just about sex.
Many wives recognize that they must be caressed, expected to be caressed, hugged, and kissed, but this regulation does not necessarily bring further development trends in sexual life. However, husbands often misunderstand the meaning of wives, and when they see their wives expressing their passion, they feel that they want to live together, so they start, leading to situations that are imminent and urgent. At every such moment, the wife can only act according to the situation. The result of the incident was that the husband believed that they had considered their wife's rules, while the wife believed that her feelings were misunderstood, making it difficult for them to be afraid to express their love rules and not know how to express them in the future.
All normal men and women expect sexual behavior to exceed sexual needs, but there are different regulations for the destinations where sexual needs exceed. Generally speaking, after arousing sexual desire, all the caresses a man makes towards a woman move towards the overall goal of sexual intercourse. And women are different. When faced with intimate personal behaviors such as hugs, kisses, and caresses from men, they always feel emotional considerations at the beginning. Before their sexual desire is stimulated, this kind of physical contact can also provide them with a happy experience, not necessarily pursuing the results of perfect sexual intercourse. From the perspective of social psychology, women have more self love psychology. In other words, they hope to receive love from others. So, women often unconsciously imply to men the necessity of love. Moreover, these men who do not understand the psychological characteristics of women, upon seeing this suggestion, usually guess the other party according to their own regulations, thinking that she is sending out sexual data signals to themselves, so they deliberately update their sexual behavior repeatedly, ultimately leading to the female's psychological state not being accepted in advance. This misunderstanding is caused by certain psychological and physiological factors, and in a sense, it is accidental.
However, although people accept this contingency in basic theory, this misunderstanding can prevent this misunderstanding. For men, the most important thing is to eliminate the misconception that sex is equal to sexual intercourse. Although both are related to sex, there are substantial differences. Sexual activity focuses on psychological states and is not aimed at sexual intercourse; Sexual intercourse focuses on physiological considerations, and sexual intercourse is the only purpose. From the perspective of expression, the key to sex is composed of peripheral sexual life, such as sweet whispers, gentle friction, kisses, and hugs; Sexual intercourse mainly manifests as immediate contact with the male reproductive organs. Naturally, in order to transcend this immediate contact, it is usually necessary to start with marginal sexual life, but unlike this, the goal is very established, which is to adjust women's sexual impulses as early as possible to promote sexual intercourse. After understanding the above differences, men can no longer draw a percentage mark between sex and intercourse. Of course not.
They also know that they should express more emotions towards their wives, but they all feel stupid in these aspects. Once they do not see a clear reaction from their wife, they believe that they have poor work abilities in these areas, so they take immediate and decisive measures to supplement their shortcomings. The second question is that men do not believe that women can have sex and do not require sexual intercourse. In these aspects, they have committed the problem of self evaluation. The physiological experience of men throughout the entire sexual process is more evident in the final stage of sexual intercourse. In contrast, previous experiences are becoming increasingly irrelevant. From their own feelings, men also believe that women can only obtain true sexual needs based on sexual intercourse, so they often rush to update their sexual behavior and believe that it can only be considered their own feelings. To dispel these two doubts, men must understand more about women's psychological states, understand that their level of sexual regulation is generally no less than that of sexual intercourse, and also understand that women usually experience more pleasure in sex (not sex), which is completely different from men. For men, after gaining insight into the secrets of women's psychological states, it becomes more relaxed in their marital life and there is no need to avoid difficulties like before.