Doubts:
"My husband and I have been having a difficult sex life, and I think the main reason is because of our husband.". "In our sexual lives, he always makes sudden moves, which annoys me a lot.". For example, sometimes in the middle of sexual activity, he will suddenly stop and ask him why. He only says he wants to take a break for a while. But his sudden action completely disrupted my rhythm.
Sometimes, during sexual life, he will suddenly propose changes. I wouldn't object to a richer sexual lifestyle, but his changes are really too abrupt and abrupt. Under his urging, I feel like I have become a tool. Similar things happen from time to time in our sexual lives, which always interferes with my feelings. What can I do to correct his bad habits in a situation like him?
Re:
This is not a question of "pulling the trigger", but a question of mutual understanding. It is normal to stop and change positions during sexual life, but it should be natural and have a transition. Men should choose to "rest" when women are already feeling better, and should not stop caressing and flirting.
If changing posture may affect the other person's emotions at the time, do not change. People may have different "sexual interests". For long-term intimate relationships between spouses, it is important to naturally understand each other's "sexual interests" and not sweep away each other's "interests.".
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)