A man who has a new partner or has done something shameful outside with the woman at home will lie when asked about it. This lie has long been woven. If a woman believes, all is well; If exposed by a woman, she asks: Why lie? Men will say: 'Because they love you, because they care about you. If they don't love you and don't care about you, they can tell you directly. What can you do?'?
A foolish woman would think that a man's words make sense. He still loves me and cares about me, the woman thought.
It's a bit messy, let's start from scratch! Men only have two options for women: lying and not lying. If they don't lie, they don't care about her. If they lie, they are called white lies because they still care about her. We only pay attention to the topics of "caring" and "not caring" in a man's defense, ignoring the important premise: he did something wrong!
A man who does something wrong already hurts a woman, and lying itself is a form of harm. Don't distinguish between kindness and malice.
So, do men really care about and love women when they lie to them? I think it's more because he's afraid of trouble and hurting himself.
Lies come into play, everyone is at peace, men don't like trouble, and they are both at home and out. That's a man's skill. The backyard often catches fire, and that's a useless man! So, men like to lie!
If you don't lie, to be honest, it's very troublesome. If women start making trouble, even the guerrillas can't suppress it. If she only gets into trouble with men, it's okay, but women are just skincare animals. They don't like to blame their own men, usually the fox spirits outside. Spicy people will lead their own brothers to kick open the door of the fox spirit, and then strike arrows from left to right, not only punishing the fox spirit physically, but also harming the fox spirit from the height of their wives. If a fox spirit is beautiful, a woman will scold her for being coquettish; If the fox spirit is ugly, she will harm her beyond her means. Going home, women still have to harm men without vision or level. The fox spirit is also full of anger when it sees a man again: How could you marry such a shrew with a yellow face? You don't have much level either! The man was criticized by two women for being shameless, which really didn't mean much.
Encountering a so-called high-level wife and meeting a fox spirit in a coffee shop to discuss how to allocate this man, the man becomes very restless at this moment, unsure of how the two women will divide themselves. Of course, there is also some excitement in the nervousness, and having women competing for themselves can be considered a charm! The most tragic thing is that as the two women chatted, they became more and more congenial. The two women became friends, and everyone abandoned him together. That's really like stealing a chicken, not losing a handful of rice.
That's why men lie. Lying is for fear of trouble. Words like "care about you" and "love you" are just like powder to whitewash ugly faces!
Turning back to the woman who was deceived by lies. Women also have two attitudes towards lies: not caring and caring. Don't care, don't even analyze whether a man's words are true or false. In short, just give a reason. A woman who cares will analyze whether a man's words are true or false. If they are true, they will be happy, and if they are false, they will be angry. This type of woman is quite tired. It is analyzed as a lie, and there are two attitudes: exposing men and pretending to be confused. Exposing men will experience a storm, and this storm will bring about a war, in which it is oneself who is harmed; If you pretend to be confused, there won't be any major conflicts, but the things buried inside are also like drugs, deeply eroding the body and soul.
The man said, 'A silly woman is cute and really smart!'! They didn't know that there was a demon deep in the soul of such a smart and foolish woman. On the day it was truly born, no one could subdue it!
The woman said, 'It's hard to be confused!'! It's just comforting oneself, obtaining a moment of peace and minimizing harm is a helpless self-defense for women.
There is a way, which is quite interesting. Women can give it a try: when you know that a man is lying to you, and you also know everything, and you don't want to leave him, nor do you want to have a war, then you often ask him indirectly and unintentionally, and he will be tired of constantly lying, but you won't expose him and watch him try to fabricate a lie in front of you. You sneer at him and say to yourself, 'Little guy, be a screenwriter, it's exhausting!'!