Post Date November, 17 2024
A random interview was conducted with several male friends around me regarding the issue of mature girls versus virgins, and the answers were unanimous: I like mature girls, but I don't like virgins. The reason is similar, but it's just that mature girls are more understanding of style, virgins are too raw, lack interest, and so on. The interviewees solemnly declare that they have no virgin plot. But wait a moment, when I turned to ask female friends around me if their boyfriends or husbands had a virgin plot, the answers were very different. Many of them had the first reaction: Of course they did, how could they not?
Interesting phenomenon
On the surface, we have entered an era of mature women, who are confident, independent, and charming, and are highly praised and respected by this society. But have men's hearts really completely changed? I don't think so. After all, we are not too far away from the era of not marrying a virgin. The white cloth on the bed may have disappeared, but many men still have a white cloth in their inner corners. Unlike in the past, men in the era of mature women are often ashamed to admit their deep virgin plot. It is like a relic of the feudal era, appearing so old-fashioned, outdated, and somewhat ignorant. How can men be ashamed to admit it?
If one is fixated on that specific physiological membrane, men's virgin plot often encounters absurdity and sadness in the age of mature women.
Joan of Arc
The artificial hymen destroyed Li Guangtou's virgin dream, which is of course a novel, but the absurdity in reality may not be inferior to novels. The artificial virginity in the novel comes entirely from reality. Who hasn't seen those advertisements in the back seat of a taxi that make women blush (men don't know what they feel after reading them)? Regardless of these fake ones, true virgins are not necessarily pure. Those who publicly auction their Droit du seigneur right on the Internet, those who claim to be pure and flawless in the notice of marriage seeking, and therefore require the other party to be a multimillionaire, may be physically virgin, but mentally they have long been away from virginity. Such a virgin, probably not even Li Guangtou would like it.
To put it a step further, will a man be satisfied if he really gets a virgin who is like a fake replacement? That's strange! Lin Chi-ling, who is still as shy as a girl at the age of 30- no matter whether it is true or not - miraculously charmed so many men because of her innocence as a virgin and the amorous feelings of an old woman. Eileen Chang had already seen through men's Ambivalence before she came to the classic line in Red Rose and White Rose: Maybe every man has had at least two such women. Married a red rose, and over time, the red turned into a patch of mosquito blood on the wall, while the white remained the 'bright moonlight in front of the bed'; Married a White Rose, the white one is a grain of rice glue on the clothes, the red one is a cinnabar mole on the heart. Men would like to combine White Rose and red roses to create a new variety, which includes both the fresh and shy White Rose and the wild fragrance of red roses. In fact, women are never like this. A good man with a little bad will always be the dream lover of all women. Understanding this, perhaps women can also be tolerant of the virgin plot of men.
Let's understand the virgin plot as a yearning for purity. So, in this era, in order to obtain a pure woman, men must become more diligent. The white cloth on the bed is no longer effective. Men need to learn a more effective method of identification - to judge a woman's purity through the heart rather than the membrane. This is clearly a daunting task that only smart men can handle.
