Sexual Health
How to Do Couple Foreplay with the Most Pleasure: What Can Women Do for Men in Foreplay
Q: I'm almost done with foreplay for my girlfriend, and when I'm ready to insert, I'll soften up... So I asked her to blow twice for me to get an erection. But after I had an erection and put on the condom, she got cold again. Do you know why? Or, how can I maintain hardness while helping her perform foreplay?
Answer: According to this friend's description, this state doesn't sound like having sex, but rather like doing some preparation work and following the program. Foreplay is not about deciding what kind of action to complete, but rather the process of expanding sexual stimulation (sensation) when there is a sensation. During this process, the woman's reaction is very good, and her appearance will also bring stimulation to the man. After stimulation, the man's erection will not weaken and will continue. During this process, if the male believes that the task has been completed and the female's response is not satisfactory, and there is no sustained stimulation for her, the reaction will become colder.
So when two people have sex, don't have sex. If you have feelings, follow them and expand them, which is foreplay. When the foreplay is good, both of them are very excited, and the time spent wearing condoms will never make them lose interest. For example, not too wet, not too hard, etc. Therefore, this issue is not a technical issue, but a perceived one.