"My husband and I have just been married for half a year, and our relationship is very good. However, after getting married, I found that my husband always cannot completely relax during his sexual life.".
At first, I thought this was a normal behavior at the beginning of a new marriage, so I didn't take it seriously.
But then I found out that my husband seemed to have some psychological problems: During communication, the information he revealed was that he was not confident about his appearance. Originally, my husband was not good-looking and had bad skin, but when we fell in love, I valued his integrity and kindness, as well as his sense of responsibility for the family. I believe he will be a good husband.
Of course, in the eyes of others, I am considered a very beautiful woman, and some people have made jokes about the contrast between my husband and me in appearance. "But I never put too much emphasis on looks. I think the important thing about a couple's relationship is their feelings and emotions.". "However, my husband is ashamed of himself because of his appearance, and he is afraid that I won't be satisfied with his sexual life. As a result, he is often nervous during his sexual life.".
I don't know how to relieve him of this unnecessary psychological burden. What can I do to make him confident?
Re:
Tell him clearly why you like him. If it doesn't work out once, repeat it over and over again until he clearly knows that his general appearance doesn't affect his charm in the eyes of a beautiful woman like you. His charm in other aspects has in fact far exceeded his lack of appearance. Tell him: "You, including many women, when choosing a man, the more important thing is not the appearance, but the heart.". When you use these to arouse his confidence, the embarrassing problem will be solved naturally.