Post Date November, 16 2024
When the first orgasm finally arrives, women can proudly say that it is achieved through understanding their own body. From then on, women became enlightened, and their sexual life was beyond words, transitioning from a limited understanding of sex to becoming experts in sex. Women hope that their friends can also enjoy the pleasure of sex like themselves, not so late to experience it. The advice of a sex guru is that you must first face your body and desires - the 5 questions that every woman should ask about their sexual life, which is her advice for all women.
1. What exactly do I think of sex?
A person's views on sex are closely related to family education. Like many families in the southern United States, instilling the concept of 'sex is shameful' in their children can subtly become genes in their bodies and affect their sexual life in the future. This is Hilda Hutchison's personal experience, and her conservative views have indeed messed up her sex life. Her solution is to make a list, first write down the conservative sexual beliefs you have accepted in the past, and then write down the opposite beliefs. For example, first write 'only bad girls enjoy sex', and then write 'all girls should enjoy sex'. Whenever conservative ideas arise - whether in bed or in other ways - opposite ideas emerge in her mind, from "not allowed to do this" to "why not give it a try", and the psychological barriers that affect her enjoyment of sex are slowly resolved.
2. Do we understand each other's bodies?
Many women complain, 'He always can't find my clitoris.' We all hope men can find that, but have you ever thought that besides general guidance, can we give them more information? Hilda Hutchison often gives couples a piece of advice, which can be called "clitoral 101". The trick is: don't go straight to the topic, go straight to the cute "little pea", and remember the saying: "Haste makes waste.
3. What is my orgasm shortcut?
Which area feels more comfortable when you are caressed? Which speed and force are more effective for you? Is there any sexual fantasy object that can help you reach orgasm quickly? If you can't answer these questions, then find the answers one by one - because knowing how to be happy is the foundation for enjoying happiness with others. Hilda Hutchinson's patient discovered that their sexual fantasy scene is a 3P, and she said, 'There's nothing shameful about it. When you have a clear understanding of your orgasm path, you can guide your partner to reach that state again and again.'.
4. Have I ever made him please me?
If you answer 'yes', there is still hope. If you put in effort, you should also receive the same reward. But many women often believe that the happiness of their partner is more important than their own happiness. Hilda Hutchison's patient, who had read various materials about oral sex, did not consider it unacceptable. When her partner wanted to give her oral sex, she hesitated - because she was worried that she wouldn't know how to please him in the future. In fact, you think too much and make him please you. This joy will bring him a sense of satisfaction.
5. Do I recognize my body?
Your attitude towards your body directly affects your sexual life. There is a woman who enjoyed a good sexual life before giving birth, but after giving birth, everything changed: she disliked her bloated body, missed the flat abdominal muscles before giving birth, and when her husband touched those parts she thought were very unsuccessful, she would push his hand away. This is certainly not a good thing for sex.
Hilda Hutchison asked her to buy a notebook and write down one of her physical strengths every day. After persisting in memorizing for a month, she finally realized that her body was as commendable as before, just that she had entered a different stage. Of course, exercise can also be helpful as it helps with sexual desire and arousal.
