Sexual Health
College Students' Sexual Life Is Different, and Sexual Techniques Increase More Interest
After maintaining an intimate relationship for a while, sexual life will begin to become dull. At this point, it is time to explore different ways to increase interest.
Before making love
① When taking a shower in Muyu, take a mandarin duck bath and gently massage or soap each other, making it easier for the two to create a wild atmosphere after their physical and mental relaxation.
② Massaging him all over the bed can also make him feel sexually elevated.
◆ During sex
① You can use the assistance of sex toys or the imitation of porn to boost the fun.
② Most men really enjoy "oral sex".
The so-called oral sex is the use of the lips to stimulate the sexual organs of the opposite sex, whether licking or sucking, it is the act of using the mouth to target the sexual organs of the opposite sex. Some people believe that the genitals are excretory organs and are considered unclean, making it difficult to accept oral sex. In fact, as long as we can take good cleaning measures and eliminate prejudices in our hearts, it's okay to give it a try. Some women believe that oral sex with men involves holding the penis in their mouth and swinging their face back and forth. However, this is a wrong idea. If this method is used, the pleasure the penis receives will not be greater than that of simple sexual intercourse. The best method is to hold the glans part in the mouth and scratch it with the tip of the tongue downwards, while the other parts of the tongue move the back of the penis left and right to provide greater stimulation to the penis.
③ Sexual intercourse method:
Sexual intercourse is not only a simple form of twitching, but also includes forward and backward movements, up and down movements, rotary movements, compression movements, and mixed movements, each with different techniques and feelings. Regardless of the approach, it requires the assistance of women to make sexual life more colorful.
When taking forward and backward movements, due to the lack of significant changes in the movements themselves, efforts must be made in terms of speed and depth. Forward and backward movements can create a shaking sensation in a woman's entire body. Women can cooperate with male movements to perform forward and backward movements, increasing mutual interaction.
Up-down movement is a typical movement for women in positions such as upper or flexion. When women exercise up and down, their waist cannot move flexibly, so the use should not be too stimulating.
The so-called rotational motion refers to the practice of using the power of the waist to draw a circle after the penis is inserted into the vagina, which is the most suitable movement for women in the upper position. During the rotational motion, the sexual organs of the two people will tightly bond together.
Compression movement is the insertion of the penis, which tightly binds each other's genitalia. Through compression movement, the female clitoris and uterus vagina are strongly stimulated, while men can enjoy the pleasure of vaginal contraction.
Mixed sports are a combination of various activities mentioned above.
④ Sexual intercourse position:
Sexual intercourse in different positions can also provide people with a different sense of pleasure. The choice of sexual position to adopt is entirely based on personal preferences, as well as considerations of body size and physical strength. There are no basic guidelines, as long as two people like it, no matter which method or position is suitable. However, if one stays in the same position for a long time, the stimulation will gradually decrease. It is best to change in three or four positions and put in some effort to make sexual life more enjoyable.
The normal position is for a woman to lie down facing up, with her knees propped up and her legs open, and then the lower body of the man enters between the open legs of the woman, using the elbows and wrists to support the upper body for sexual intercourse. This method is very suitable for men and women with limited sexual experience.
When you want to get pregnant, you can use a flexion position for sex. The flexion position is also an upward approach for women, but women must bend their legs vigorously from the waist, while men use their elbows, knees, or hands to support their bodies. Because the vagina is in a vertical position, ejaculated semen is not easy to flow out, making it the easiest way to conceive. In addition, the sexual intercourse position where men and women face each other and lie horizontally for sex is called the lateral position, which is also suitable for couples who want to conceive.
The method of raising a woman's buttocks with a pillow while lying face up is called lumbar high position. This method is very suitable for women who have first-time sexual intercourse and also for men who are slightly tired.
Riding position is a very active way for women to enjoy themselves. It is a position where men lie facing up and women sit astride. There are two ways for women to ride on men, one is to support their bodies with both hands, and the other is to only seat their hips on the man's waist.
The position where a woman lies face up with her knees propped up and her legs opened, and a man's feet inserted between the woman's legs into the penis is called the crossing position. When making love in a different position, both men and women are quite free to caress each other freely.
The posture in the back position is very similar to the sexual intercourse movements of animals. Women stand up with their knees, lean forward, and use their hands to support their weight. The buttocks tilt upwards, and the male penis enters the female vagina from behind. This can provide strong stimulation for men and satisfy their sense of conquest, but it is not suitable for pregnant women.
After sex
After achieving orgasm during sexual intercourse, men ejaculate. Once orgasm is over, the penis will atrophy and return to its pre erection appearance. In a short period of time, they are not interested in sexual stimulation. If they are forced to stimulate them, it will actually make them feel disgusted. Nevertheless, women should not immediately fall asleep after the fusion of water and milk, as this can cause men to feel uneasy and doubt their performance during sexual intercourse. So there is still a need for afterplay after sex.
Basically, the essence of afterplay and foreplay is different. Foreplay is mainly to enhance sexual excitement, while afterplay is to alleviate excitement, express consideration, and achieve spiritual satisfaction. Therefore, there is no need for "flirting" in the afterplay, as long as you gently embrace and feel the warmth of the other party.
◆ Sexual precautions
① Men are born with the desire to conquer women. Satisfying men's desire to conquer in this regard is the best way to please men. In love, it is necessary to show a cheerful and excited appearance. When men feel that women are immersed in it, they will work even harder and want to show their male prowess to please women. And after being entangled, don't forget to tell him that you are very happy or praise him for being great. Encouraging and praising can make men feel at ease and proud, and build confidence. However, one cannot pretend to go too far, as excessive exaggeration can reveal a ponytail.
② The techniques of making love vary from person to person, and the physical condition at the time can also affect the quality of making love. Therefore, do not make judgments based on a single performance, nor compare it with others. No one likes to be compared, especially in this regard. In addition, do not blame the other party for not being able to achieve orgasm. Sometimes the problem may be on oneself without realizing it. Adequate communication is the solution to the problem. Simply blaming the other party not only harms harmony, but may not necessarily lead to identifying the problem.
③ Adequate communication between men and women is very important. Do not force your own thoughts on others. Always take things for granted, which will inevitably break the bridge of communication. Once there is a generation gap between the thoughts of both parties, there is a possibility of conflict. Therefore, it is very important to pay sincere attention and constantly listen to each other's thoughts.
④ In addition to communication, opening up your mind and not being stuck in a certain style can be very helpful for sexual life by putting in some effort to try various changes. There are no absolute rules or taboos for sexual activity, and the only way to have sex is to accumulate experience together.