On June 16, 2001, I just graduated from college for two years and became his bride! There was no choice in getting married. At that time, I was nearly three months pregnant. My husband Wu Ming and I were kind-hearted people. We didn't want to kill a living life easily. Wu Ming is not a deserter when he learns that a woman is pregnant like some men. He wants to marry me and make me a beautiful bride. Everything is so smooth. In March 2001, our lovely son was born.
One day, just a few days after my son's full moon, at noon, my father-in-law ran home panting and said to me and my husband that he wanted to buy a three-bedroom two-hall house with an average price of 3800 yuan per square meter. How do we intend to buy it? The three of us immediately took a taxi to see the house. This is a good neighborhood, in the center of the location. The surrounding supermarkets, hospitals, schools, shopping malls and banks are not far from the community. A lot of people have moved in the first phase, and the second phase has been sold almost. If you don't buy it today, it may be gone tomorrow.
At that time, my husband was hesitant, but I was firmly opposed! My reason is simple. How can we get so much money? The father-in-law tried to persuade us, saying, "It's cost-effective to buy this house. The house in the final stage is relatively cheaper, and the location is good. You can't live with your parents all the time. If you have a son, you can buy a relatively large house. You are still young, and you should have appropriate pressure. It's not humiliating to use tomorrow's money to do today's things!" The father-in-law is a filial son, and hurriedly said, "Good, good, I listen to my father." And I said, "I don't care anyway, let you go! You pay for all the consequences"
For houses with a total price of more than 500000 yuan, 200000 commercial loans and 100000 provident fund loans will be repaid in 20 years, and the remaining down payment will be made! At that time, I felt that my husband and father-in-law were crazy. At that time, my husband and I had no accumulated monthly income of 5000 yuan. In addition to the house loan, the remaining living expenses are less than 2000 yuan per month. How do you live in the future?
I remember that at that time, the sales lady said to us that the parking space would be free if we bought the house. It was just below the house we bought, and only 5000 yuan would be enough! My husband and I hope to buy the parking space! However, I was a little angry. I didn't make a mistake. Such a small piece of land costs 5000 yuan. The house is enough for me, and I still count on parking space. Is it possible to buy a car? Because of my repeated objections, my father-in-law and husband had to rely on me, and the parking space was thus abandoned!
In life, when we are in despair, a miracle will appear; In life, when we think we can't reach our goals, dreams come to us unconsciously; In life, when we think we are wrong, then we know how wise we are;
In life, when we think we are smart decisions, we will know that they are stupid decisions as time goes by. Unexpectedly, the house of 3800 square meters at that time is now nearly 30000 square meters; Unexpectedly, after the loan, my husband and I had a prosperous career; Unexpectedly, we paid off the 300000 loan within five years; Unexpectedly, I became a car owner two years ago; Unexpectedly, the lack of parking space makes me miserable; What's more, in order to get the parking space, I went to the security guard's bed!
More than two years ago, looking at many little sisters around me who have their own cars, I also clamored for my husband to buy a car for me. My husband loved me and bought a car for me within a few days. But when I have a car, parking has become a headache for me. In such a large residential area, the lines and underground garage can't be parked. It's someone else's designated parking space! It can only be parked in some places without lines, and it can not affect the smooth flow of roads in the community.
Some families are really rich, and some even have two or three cars. Sometimes I come back late from work and there is no place to park. I had to stop at the side of the road outside the area, but ended up being fined 200 yuan by the traffic police for copying the ticket several times! In order to park, I have to bribe the security guards of the community and sometimes buy them some cigarettes. First, I hope to save the parking fee which is not cheap every month. Second, I hope they can look for where to park!
For parking space, I was really exhausted. I looked for property. They said there was no way. Now there are too many private cars. I didn't expect such a situation when the community was established! At the beginning of July last year, I took a break and drove to find the security captain. He said at first that there was no way! Then I said to him, good brother, think of a way! The captain of the security guard hesitated and smoked heavily and said to me, "I have a way to let you have a parking space for a long time. It's not convenient to talk here. I'll discuss with you at my house. I'm afraid that others won't hear you well here, but I'll get through for you!"
As soon as I heard that I could have a parking space for a long time, I couldn't think much about it. I quickly said yes, thank you, brother! The security captain's home is not far from the community. The 6th floor of an old building is the security captain's home. Looking at his home, the conditions are not good? But what attracted my attention was that there were a lot of cigarettes and wine in a glass cabinet in his house! The security captain said to me, you can park that car in the big mouth of the community. The original parking person has emigrated. I thanked you in a hurry and prepared to turn around and go home!
He took my hand and said to me, "You are so beautiful and sexy today!" My face immediately turned red! I don't know what to say. He added: "Now there are many people who want parking space. I give you parking space. You should repay me! Just hold you down." I want to hold you down? He looked at me and said nothing. He hugged me, but kissed me up. I quickly pushed him away! Tell him not to mess around. I'm a man with a husband!
The captain of the security guard seemed a little angry and said that it was all right with me. He didn't want to give the parking space to others. If I promise, I won't charge 270 yuan a month for parking. At this time, my mind is thinking of my miserable days in order to find a parking space. The security captain hugged me again. This time, I pushed halfway and didn't refuse. In this way, I went to the security guard's bed for the parking space! I really had my own parking space that day and didn't pay the parking fee! My husband also praised me for my ability, but who can understand the bitterness in my heart?
At the end of May, the security captain asked me to go to his house again, and I refused! But I didn't expect that the other day, I found that my parking space was occupied by a red car. It was the car of a younger and more beautiful woman than me! I went to negotiate with the security captain, but he said that other immigrants had returned. But I want to know that this woman has just moved to the community for a short time. I want to report the ugly face of the security captain, but the thought of my husband once said to me that as long as I cheat, no matter what reason, I will divorce! My courage is gone! I really don't know what to do? Have to have tears to swallow!
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)