Post Date December, 03 2023
Reader's Letter:
I actually became a destroyer of someone else's family myself. He lied to me that he got divorced, and later we got together. Now that his wife called me, I realized. But now I am particularly unwilling because his wife found out and quarreled with him. He didn't say a word of explanation to me, he didn't answer my phone calls, sent text messages to scold him, and he didn't respond. Now his wife calls me every day, texting me about their relationship, and also asking me about it. I didn't have any arguments with his wife, and after chatting, I found out that he had a woman outside who had been in contact all along. The relationship that should have happened also happened. This woman not only knew he had a wife, but also knew about me because we had met before.
Now her wife is asking me to go find him and ask him to give me an explanation. In fact, I still want to forgive him because his wife is giving birth this month, and I just hate him so much. What should I do?
reply:
Hello, thank you for trusting Shange. I'm not sure what kind of super magic and charm this man possesses, how could he make his original wife not want to give up and let you extramarital women go around the front and back. Many times, women are not afraid of being a mistress. What they are most afraid of is being someone else's mistress and not willing to be reconciled. Even though they know they have become the object of men's play, they still have to continue to struggle without interest. Isn't it just a fool. In fact, all three of you women are victims and should unite to condemn him. The best punishment for this man is to treat him like garbage and keep him away from him, making him a lonely family and not letting him gloat there.
For this, you need to understand from the inside out that this man is not worth staying for, nor is he worth hating or caring about. It is the wisest choice to completely disappear from him. The result of continuing to pester this man can only make you more sad and sad, why bother. The same sentence: Why do women bother women! Respect others and cherish yourself.
