I forgot to pick up my documents while on a business trip, and when I returned home to pick them up, I saw a scene in my bedroom that was unbearable

My husband is an engineer with a stable job and a decent salary, but he doesn't like to talk. When we go on a blind date, if it weren't for me speaking, we could just sit back until the end. Fortunately, I didn't give up on him. After getting to know each other for a period of time, I found that he belongs to the slow heat type. The longer the contact time, the more he chats.

After confirming our relationship, we quickly celebrated our wedding ceremony and gave birth to a baby a year later. The child is a bit older because we have to go to work, so my mother-in-law helped take care of it and brought it home for rest days. The life is very stable, without big storms. I am very satisfied with him, but his tepid attitude makes people feel a little cold. He doesn't seem to be interested in his daily life as a couple, and we usually don't do it a few times a month. Every time I come back from a business trip, other people's homes always say 'farewell is better than getting married'. He just says a simple greeting and hastily settles the matter.

I have always believed that his personality is like this, but when his secrets were revealed to me without reservation, I was completely disorganized.

Half a month ago, the company arranged for me to go on a temporary business trip and I couldn't say goodbye to my husband in person. I called him and told him. When I went home to pick up my luggage, he hadn't finished work yet, and my briefcase was on the table in the bedroom. I left too quickly and forgot to pick it up. I had to apologize for the delay in my flight due to the hassle of going back and forth. I had to call my boss to reschedule, but after getting approval, I was so hungry that I didn't have time to say hello to my husband. I went to dinner on my own and then made my way back home.

After returning home, there was an extra pair of women's high heels at the door. My heart trembled and I continued walking inside, hugging two white bodies together. I turned on the light and they woke up with a guilty conscience. My husband was still protecting the woman, who hurriedly dressed and fled the scene while I was in a daze. My heart is already empty and I don't know what to say.

My husband took a cigarette and began to explain to me that the other person was his predecessor. After the breakup, he had been thinking about it for a long time. Now that she has returned, she has actively contacted him and has not been able to control her relationship. I cried and patted him with both hands. Since I couldn't let go, why did I marry me? He hugged me and apologized, saying he was sorry, and I was completely confused. Where should our marriage go?

Reply from Weiqing Consultant:

Hello, he can't let go of his predecessor while marrying you. From this, it can be seen that his marriage to you is completely a routine task, giving an explanation to his parents. After marriage, he has been lukewarm and indifferent to you, indicating that he has not let go of the other party at all. When the other party reappears, he runs towards them recklessly. This kind of marriage, this kind of relationship, is too chaotic. If we cannot manage it properly, it will be meaningless for the marriage to continue. If you can keep a person's body but not their heart, then you are a failure. Communicate well before deciding whether to divorce or break up your marriage.