Post Date December, 03 2023
[Letter from readers]
Hello! What should I do? I'm in love with a married man... I know whether or not... but I'm really interested in him. What's your good advice? Excuse me, thank you! I am a single mother. At the end of 2007, his father died of illness
[Reply]
Hello, you know you can't, but you can't stop. You know you shouldn't, but you have a passion. What can you do in this situation? You just need to think about the result of falling in love with him. Can you start well and finish well? Or can he divorce you and give you a happy home? You should know that love is hierarchical, it also needs principles, and it also needs morality and dignity. To be a man, you should have a clear conscience. To love a person, you should be more open and aboveboard. Don't steal other people's men, let alone rob other people's men. Many times you think that the treasure in other people's hands may become garbage when it comes to your hands. I hope you can do it well.
[Letter from readers]
Hello, would you like to ask me, will the marriage you have won be long? My wife and I have been married for four years and have two children. Now because of family conflicts, she has to divorce, and I still have feelings for her and don't want to let go. And considering the reasons for children, if I put down my dignity to beg her now and she can agree, will our marriage last?
[Reply]
Hello, it is normal to have conflicts in the family. The key is to see what conflicts are. If it is an irreconcilable conflict, it will still be troublesome after the event if we take the delaying measures to save the marriage. As for your saying that you should lay down your dignity and ask for your wife, I think there are different levels of men's dignity. If your wife tramples on your dignity as a mitigating condition, it is certainly unacceptable. Of course, if it is for family matters, and because of a quarrel, your wife impulsively wants to balance you with divorce, then why don't you put aside the man's face for the time being and ask her to get back together? It is not a matter of loss. How much can face and so-called dignity be worth compared with the integrity of marriage? As long as the marriage is still going on, there will inevitably be family conflicts. Only by learning from the lessons at any time, daring to face the conflicts, finding solutions, and then working hard, can the marriage be maintained as hard as you think.
