Post Date December, 03 2023
My husband's sexual life is too elegant, and I can think about it for a while when I change my position
My husband and I have been married for three years, and I am not satisfied with our sexual life after marriage. "We got married a year after being introduced by a friend, and my husband's personality contrasts greatly with mine.". My personality is outgoing, but he is too delicate.
Of course, our marital relationship is still good, and my husband is also very concerned about me in life. Although his methods sometimes make me difficult to accept, such as being talkative and indecisive about small matters, I know that his feelings for me are sincere, so I can also tolerate these small problems, but what I can't tolerate is the performance of his personality in marital sexual life.
In sexual life, the husband's performance is not only too "elegant", but also too delicate, just like in life. He repeatedly asks me how I feel, and it takes a long time to nag about my true intentions before changing his style. "I always feel that his understanding of sexual life is biased. I really hope to have a natural and smooth sexual life, but my sexual life with my husband always comes to a standstill. When I can't say well, he will ask about this and that.". In this state, my interest in sexual life is becoming weaker and weaker, but he is always in high spirits. I feel that if this continues, the quality of our sexual life cannot be improved. Excuse me, how can we change the status quo?
Answer: There is nothing wrong with caring about your feelings, and your personality can only be adjusted slowly
In addition to his personality, the husband's current performance may also be related to how much he cares about your feelings. He wants to make you happy, but he's not sure what to do to really make you happy. There are many related knowledge introductions now, and your husband may have been influenced by these "sexual knowledge", coupled with his personality, to achieve his current performance.
First of all, you need to understand that your husband means well, and secondly, you need to explain clearly to him how to do it to truly satisfy you. However, it is not realistic to expect a significant change in the husband immediately. After all, the personality is formed through years of experience, but you can help him adjust a little bit. The important thing is that both parties sincerely love and help each other.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
