Post Date December, 03 2023
Before entering the marriage hall, modern people have several love experiences, and it seems that sexual relations are not uncommon. Because men and women often do not succeed in their first love, and most of them have been in love several times. So, should the spouse be frank about their past love experiences or even sexual experiences with others?
How to tell your partner about your past sexual experience
Couples should trust each other and be loyal to each other. Therefore, in principle, they should not conceal their past sexual experience, and this kind of frank disclosure should be before marriage rather than after marriage. In this way, on the one hand, you can show your trust and loyalty to the other party, on the other hand, you can also test whether you are reasonable to the other party, and whether you trust and understand yourself.
However, we can not talk about some specific details of the past, because these details do not affect the nature of the matter, and talking about it has no positive effect on the emotional development of both parties. There is such a young couple who got married after falling in love with each other. They have a good relationship. The woman had a boyfriend in the past, and they were in love with each other, but then broke up for various reasons.
Today's husband also knows about this matter. One night, the couple sat on the sofa watching TV while making love. The husband suddenly asked, "Did your friend get so close to you in the past?" At this time, the wife was very difficult to answer. If that man kissed her, hugged her and touched her in the past, what would be good for consolidating and developing the current relationship between husband and wife? So the wife avoided answering the question directly, and just kissed her husband and said, "I have never loved others as much as I love you."
The wife's approach was right and ingenious, while the husband's asking such questions seemed inappropriate. To be honest, love is not unconditional, but it should be subordinated to the purpose of facilitating the consolidation and development of the relationship between husband and wife. It can be seen that it is right to tell your spouse about your sexual experience, but you should be careful not to affect your feelings because of the past. In this regard, both husband and wife should keep a certain mind, after all, it is the past.
