How to solve the sexual desire of the elderly? Recommend 5 tips for a humane life for the elderly

In Nanning, Guangxi, in the small forests of recreational places along multiple urban sections along small rivers, some middle-aged women are soliciting elderly people to do business on the roadside and in the forest. The solicitation methods they use are very vague, abandoning their charm and hooking their fingers. Some women sit face to face with their hands around the neck of an elderly man on their thighs, while the elderly man's hands are directly inserted into the woman's chest. Some women pretend to have a customer knocking on their back with one hand, while the other hand provides sexual services for the elderly man.

Some elderly people who have served use their hands to block their faces, while others ignore their surroundings. The middle-aged men who passed by here told the reporter that they were engaged in pornographic services, including aircraft, fast food, shelling, and other services, with prices generally ranging from 20 yuan to 50 yuan. The service targets were mostly middle-aged and elderly people who were entertaining and playing here, regardless of day and night.

How do older people cope with sexual desire issues?

The marital relationship between older people and young people is the same, based on both love and sexuality, but with different proportions. As the sexual desire of the elderly decreases in function, love should become stronger. From the perspective of most people, a partner who is full of fun in their later years of life has a particularly delicate and profound love, which can be manifested in taking care of each other in life, caring for each other in emotions, and comforting each other psychologically. In old age, people should participate in recreational and sports activities (fishing, spring outing, swimming, chess, poker, learning dance, etc.) in their later years, which not only helps their body and mind, but also helps them cooperate. More importantly, they should increase the content of their love life in their later years and make up for the shortcomings caused by functional decline.

People with this situation should pay special attention to extending the interval between sexual activities, and do not follow their own inclinations. Because elderly people need to recover their nervous, cardiovascular, and muscular systems before engaging in desirable sexual activities, sexual behavior itself requires physical strength and endurance. Therefore, the more control and attention paid to interval rest and nutrition, the more satisfied the sexual life will be. As the saying goes, a small parting is better than a new marriage, which also proves this problem. On the contrary, if libido damages the kidney, it can affect sexual function. It is emphasized here that the elderly suffering from brain trauma, diabetes, hypertension, atherosclerosis and other diseases should not have frequent and excessive human activities, especially the elderly who have recovered from stroke, otherwise the possibility of inducing another stroke is high, especially after drinking alcohol to give up the sexual lifestyle of indulgence

In fact, there is no need for "specific drugs" for this physiological phenomenon of elderly people with sexual function accompanied by systemic dysfunction, and there is actually no "specific drugs". Admittedly, it is also necessary to use some auxiliary treatment methods for the elderly, such as moxibustion at the points of Mingmen, Shenshu, Dantian, etc; Massage Taixi, Yongquan and other acupoints when washing feet with hot water; Take Bawei Shenqi Pill and other decoction; Practicing martial arts, etc.

Five Skills for Humanity in the Elderly

1. Lower expectations for the elderly. A comprehensive physiological decline will reduce the sensitivity of sexual sensitive areas, increase the intensity of sensory stimulation required for sexual excitement, and slow down the response speed and intensity of elderly humanity. Only by facing this change bravely and actively following the characteristics and laws of the elderly in conducting marital sexual activities can satisfactory results be achieved.

2. The frequency and duration of sexual activity in older adults need to be determined based on their health and interests. You can have sex 1-2 times a month, or at least once every 2 months. Maintaining must be important. Otherwise, sexy feelings and sexual interests will also relax.

3. It is normal for elderly men to have significantly reduced ejaculatory power and reduced semen volume in an informal manner; And ejaculation is not necessary during sexual activity. In addition, sexual life in the elderly does not necessarily require orgasms: it does not necessarily require couples to complete it together, and "masturbation" can also be used: sexual life does not necessarily have to be performed in the bedroom or bed.

4. The manifestation of sexual love with diverse content is definitely not just sexual intercourse, but some elderly people are more willing to satisfy the need for ideological peace. Caressing and attachment play a more important role in sexual life, and are also important ways to ignite enthusiasm and maintain marriage. Fantasy, flirtation, humor, teasing, teasing, gentle gaze, and other forms of emotions and emotional expression can be closely related to the feelings of couples. External mutual attraction, psychological interdependence, and emotional complementarity are all expressions of love and an important part of sexual life.

5. Seeking medical advice As couples age, there are some physiological changes that make it difficult for them to have sex. The majority of elderly men have a decline in physical function, with a decline in androgen levels. Older women with erectile dysfunction also have a decline in estrogen secretion, reduced vaginal secretions, and vaginal dryness. Therefore, medical intervention is necessary.