Post Date December, 02 2023
The existence of "scissors difference" between husband and wife is inevitable. Generally, it will not directly affect the harmony of marriage and the relationship between husband and wife. However, when the difference between the two curves in the "scissors difference" is too large, the marriage will be contradictory or even broken. Therefore, the "curve" between husband and wife should not be too wide, and its distance should be appropriately reduced.
Extend the age and narrow the scissors gap
First, the physiological age gap between husband and wife should be appropriately widened. Since the peak of marriage value orientation between men and women usually occurs at a certain time interval, the peak of women appears earlier and the peak of men appears later, so widening the age gap between men and women can reduce the dislocation of the peak.>> How to eliminate the personality differences between husband and wife
The marriage age of men and women is about 10 years apart. If 10 years old is set as the standard for the age gap between men and women, and the two curves representing the marriage value orientation of men and women in the "scissors difference" curve are translated, we can be surprised to find that the "scissors difference" will significantly shorten, or even not exist, and it is more likely to overlap into a parabola. In other words, the age gap of about 10 years old is the best way to ensure the coexistence of "men and women".
Cherish the love between husband and wife
Secondly, we should constantly strengthen the factors that maintain the relationship between husband and wife. In real life, the age difference between many couples is not large, but the relationship between husband and wife is also very strong, which is due to many factors that maintain the relationship between husband and wife, such as the mutual affection formed in the joint struggle, subjectively making both men and women have a solid emotional foundation.
After having children, both parties objectively have the common responsibility to raise and educate, and cherish their present feelings more out of love for their children; In addition, in the long-term common life, the interdependence of economic life also makes the relationship between husband and wife stable.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
