Post Date December, 02 2023
In the view of Xiaobian, the process from knowing each other to falling in love is not easy, and one of them is naturally without the sweat left by one side. Therefore, how to sublimate love into kinship, and how to get married smoothly has become the focus of many couples. However, before that, Xiaobian believes that couples should first know how to manage their love.
1、 Perception of lover's emotional implication
Each of us has different ability to receive information. Some people are sensitive to visual information, some people are sensitive to auditory information, and others are sensitive to tactile information. Therefore, you and your lover are likely to receive emotional signals in different ways.
2、 Keep active body contact
In addition to verbal communication, physical touch is also an important way of conveying feelings and meaning - looking at each other, gently touching each other, these nonverbal messages are equally important.
3、 Mutual trust
It may not be easy for many people to truly trust each other. Then you need to carefully find out what the reason is, whether one of them is not doing well, or your own inner insecurity. After finding the cause, actively seek solutions. When one party can't really trust the other, it is often easy to catch some small things and get to the bottom of it, which will naturally affect the feelings between the two people.
4、 Mutual understanding
Even though they love each other so much, they are still independent. They still have their own life and work. It is very important to respect and understand each other. If the other party is too busy because of work, and you are still making trouble with him for a small matter, and keep calling and sending messages to him. As a result, the other party will feel angry and bored, and your unhappiness will not disappear. It can be said that "both lose". Why bother?
5、 Learn to tolerate
No one is perfect. People always have shortcomings. They always neglect or do something wrong because of carelessness or carelessness. These small problems are normal. Don't magnify them too much in life. To accept each other's shortcomings, admit and accept that they are such a person, that is to truly accept each other.
6、 Know how to make yourself better
True love, the right person, will make you want to make yourself better. Have you ever experienced this feeling? If not, maybe you haven't learned how to love. Knowing love will make you know how to love yourself and take care of yourself; I will know how to make myself a better person, make myself more worthy of being loved, and how to love better.
If both parties can compromise in love, it means that you have achieved growth. If both parties can compromise willingly in love, then love can be sublimated. So, for your happy marriage, cheer! Pledge to manage love to the end
