Many male friends always complain that their wives are difficult to support and are afraid that their wives will compare themselves with others. So, from now on, spend more of your complaining energy on these practical behaviors and work hard for your wife to never change her heart for the rest of her life!
1. Embrace your wife as much as possible every day, even if she dislikes you and sweats profusely, she is not afraid because her heart is sweet.
2. Always sincerely say to your wife at appropriate times or when you are in a happy mood, "I love you!" "Love everything about you!" "We are really happy together. Seeing this, some people may sneer and say, 'clich é d!' But how many people have achieved it?
3. Housework is always a headache, actively sharing it with your wife and rushing to stir fry (protecting your wife's skin is protecting your own pocket). No matter how unpleasant you make it, only your wife will not change her color and eat it, and she will also encourage you to say, "Just cook a few more times and it will be delicious. Try to eat with your wife as much as possible when you have time. Studies have shown that eating alone can lead to stomach problems.
4. On your wife's birthday, various festivals, anniversaries, it's okay not to hold a flag or drum to celebrate, but remember to give her a gift; It's okay if you don't give a gift, but invite her to spend dinner with you; It's okay if you don't invite her to dinner, but remember to bring her a bouquet of flowers; If you think sending flowers is wasteful, then buy her some snacks she likes; It's okay if you don't buy snacks, but remember to call and greet her, and even if you're feeling down, send her a meaningful text message. If you forget to send a text message, then wait for her to blame you. It's not a good thing to accumulate a lot of resentment. People who have watched ghost movies know more about it!
5. Whenever you have time and are not tired, go shopping with your wife. Don't use men's aversion to shopping as an excuse. You always think it's a conspiracy of some men, and you don't want to accompany them, do you? Haha, I don't know that those men who create conspiracies are waiting for the opportunity! So when my wife wants to go shopping, my husband should still accompany me "occasionally". I know you have been wronged, but your clothes, shoes, and socks are more or less purchased by my wife.
6. If you have the opportunity, introduce your female colleagues and friends to your wife. Don't just hide and answer a phone call, chat and laugh with others, and pretend to be popular! This is just a sign of immaturity on the part of the little man. Don't let the smart wife laugh! Being generous in letting her understand your circle of friends will only make her trust you more! Trust is built with little effort, little by little!
7. Take on the responsibility of supporting your family bravely, regardless of whether your wife is independent or dependent. Even if your wife is currently working like you and earning more or less monthly salary, you should still consider yourself as the backbone of your family! When you see your wife coming home tired and cooking, you should say, "It's so hard, I'll take care of you!" A wise wife will also think of your hard work, and if you receive care and recognition, her work will be even more motivated!
8. When your wife wants to learn knowledge and improve herself, try to encourage her as much as possible, create conditions for her, and also become positive and progress with her. The more she learns, the more confident and meaningful she becomes, and you will also have fewer troubles for women to worry about. You can progress together, balance the gap between each other, and contribute to creating a better life. It's like flying together!
9. A large part of a person's time is spent on work, and one should often chat with their wife about their work, sharing the joy and pain with her. Perhaps many men believe that sharing success is enough, but as for the hardships, bear them on your own! Praise me here first! But women are also willing to share everything for you, which is like if you have an incurable disease (for example, please understand), afraid of not being happy or even tiring, so you try your best to pretend to be bad in order to let the woman leave you. In fact, once she learns the truth, a woman's pain and regret will torment her for life! So, the most reliable way to encounter setbacks is to share them with your partner. She will never fall into trouble, but will only encourage you to support you, because you treat her as someone you can share hardships with, and she will truly be able to share difficulties with you!
10. If there is only one computer at home, you can never monopolize it (unless you are IT), either play with your wife or instruct her to play. When you leave to drink water, help your wife pour a cup as well!