Post Date December, 03 2023
In this lifetime, people will always encounter many problems, the biggest of which is the problem in marriage. Because marriage involves the values of two generations. If there are problems with the values of these two generations and there are no such enlightened individuals, then such families will inevitably affect the happiness of children's marriages. It can even lead to an affair with the wife. How to make an extramarital wife realize the seriousness of marriage?
Firstly, you need to calm down with the other party and give them two choices
When your wife has an affair, if you tolerate it, it's not a solution. A good way is for you to be more rational and think about whether you want to spend time with the other person. Even if you do, you need to find a way to break away from the past. Then, you need to use your brain to plan your life. Then give the other party two alternative answers: first, let's not follow the example and no longer pursue it. Automatically cut off all contact with the other party. Call the other person in front of you, or you can call them directly to ask them how far they want to go. Otherwise, you won't consider the consequences anymore. 2、 If the other party wants a divorce, it's okay. They made a mistake and left with their own belongings, even their children, without any connection to the other party. Only by being tough can the other party gradually learn to behave better. My wife is going to have trouble no matter what. If she loves you, she will be loyal to you no matter what. If she doesn't love you, she simply sees marriage as a joke. And you still need to take care of the face of your entire family and not want others to criticize you behind your back.
Secondly, you need to find the corresponding marriage law regulations and let your wife take a good look
You can find the relevant provisions of the Marriage Law and have your wife take a good look as a warning. You can also use similar cases that have occurred before to let your wife know the outcome of an affair. If she doesn't feel pressured, she won't know what honesty and responsibility are. If you can make her understand these, then it is also a redemption for her. Because extramarital affairs are shameful, the reason for shame is that you cannot trample on your body like a bus by different people. At least you need to understand that you are a person, and if you are in a marriage, you must know how to abide by the rules of the marriage.
Once again, it's important to know how to save face for the other party
You should know how to give each other a chance to save face and redeem themselves, after all, you are husband and wife. Your future path depends on yourself. People have a long way to go in this life, and they need to know how to give each other a chance to reflect. If you have children, it is even more important to handle the problem carefully to avoid leaving a psychological shadow on the child. Let the child know that you love this family, but there are some problems in this family. You need to make adjustments. It should be noted that for children, the lack of maternal love during their growth process is not happy. So, it's important to understand how to maintain the other party's face. Don't promote this matter, the more suppressed it is, the better. Only in this way can you have happiness in your future lives.
If you don't be strict, you can't let your wife know about her mistakes. Marriage is based on loyalty, scattered in betrayal. If you know how to maintain, even the biggest mistake can be resolved. If you don't know how to maintain, even small conflicts can cause big waves.
