Post Date December, 03 2023
In this materialistic society, who else painfully hides their emotions, and who else kisses the bride for the first time on their wedding night? Many romantic relationships have passed for a long time, but what is unforgettable is still the feeling of farewell. However, a new life has already begun, what is the chance of a new start? What price should you pay? The love in marriage seems quite simple, but the revival of old love definitely cannot refresh a yellow page. The following content is nothing more than telling you how to kindly refuse emotions and how to stay away from the temptation of old relationships.
Taboos for dating old lovers
1. Remembering the past:
The most unforgettable memories of the past, young lovers like clouds. The romance and warmth of the past will always bring you sweet memories from time to time. But all you need to do is remember your past experiences, and there is no reason to endlessly immerse yourself in them with your old lover. That will only further deprive you of your ability to judge things. Holding a magnifying glass to see what used to be good and what is now bad, your life may become a mess from now on.
2. Simply expressing sympathy for her situation:
Women may particularly hope to receive sympathy from others, and men also show great generosity when expressing sympathy. The question is whether your sympathy is what she really needs, and what kind of situation your sympathy will take you to. The most common thing is that men gradually become deeply involved, suffering and unable to extricate themselves.
3. Promise to help casually:
Men seem to have a natural impulse to think that they are the savior, especially when facing a woman, there is simply nothing he cannot promise or do. In fact, they either couldn't do it at all or barely finished it after making great sacrifices themselves. The danger of making casual promises is that you may break another promise that is close to you in order to fulfill them.
4. Skin blind date:
From holding hands to embracing and kissing, the consequences of development can be seen from a glance. When I wake up from my dream, many words and things will become impossible to say and do, and trouble will follow one after another.
5. Arrive early or late:
Arriving early indicates that you value past relationships more than the other person, which can make them seize your weaknesses. Don't be emotional when dating an old lover. Being late indicates that you haven't taken dating seriously at all. From the other person's perspective, you look down on them, arrogant, and impolite. Even if you no longer have feelings for her, there is no need to hurt her.
What can I tell my wife
1. Although honesty is the foundation of marriage, sometimes many things cannot be said.
It's not about preserving personal privacy, but rather that these things can easily cause a series of unexpected troubles and affect the relationship between the couple. Therefore, when it comes to meeting an old lover, men should pay more attention to the principle of keeping their mouth shut. There are some things that can be said, and some things that cannot be said. Praise your old lover for being beautiful and possessing temperament in the past or present. Praising an old lover. A beautiful wife in the past would think that you have always had an unforgettable old relationship, and that you married yourself because you couldn't catch up with her. Praising her for being beautiful now would make your wife think you're getting old and ugly.
2. The details of love.
Women all like to find out, but men must insist on not revealing a word. As the saying goes, every word you say will become a testimony in the future family. If you accidentally slip your tongue, such as cooking well or wearing high heels that look good, there will be things you can see in the future.
3. The address and phone number of the old lover.
Wars all start after finding the best opponent. If you want to see the wonderful conflicts between the women you once loved in this century, then quickly give them your phone number and address.
4. Help for old lovers.
Whether you entrust someone to handle affairs for your old lover or borrow money to help out, you should never tell your wife or let others know. If she insists on repaying this favor, please make her remember it and come to her again if there are any issues in the future. The specific time and location for dating an old lover. Men are not actually cunning, women are the most difficult to deal with. They say they don't care, they trust you, and God knows how they will make every effort to monitor your every move. Although you don't have any ulterior motives towards your old lover, how can you calmly talk to others with an extra pair of vigilant eyes around you?
5. The purpose of meeting your old lover.
How to give a perfect answer to a wife can sometimes take some effort. Memorizing the past may not seem like an ideal reason, but to be honest, it may cause trouble. The safest way is to cleverly weave an excuse that closely combines work and life events.
Set a time in advance with your wife or colleagues, and then ask them to call at that time, and keep calling tirelessly. Require the other party to speak loudly and harshly, and you can intentionally adjust the distance between the phone and the ear so that she can vaguely hear. Make full use of various opportunities and scenery at the dating venue. When you decide to go home, you can stand up and hand a candy to the child sitting next to you, and then say with fatherly love, 'I can give everything for the child.'. Or when a couple goes out and whispers, 'Every day at this time, I'm already asleep because my wife has to wait for me to sleep before she can sleep.'.
