Post Date November, 16 2024
Boys enter puberty and are interested in sex appeal. Not only do I want to know how my changes are, but I also want to explore the changes in a girl's body.
At present, the age of onset of puberty continues to advance, with an average of 1 year earlier every 30 years, and an average of 13 years earlier, starting 10-11 years earlier. At this stage, the boy's secondary sexual characteristics begin to develop: the testicles and penis begin to grow and sperm begin to ejaculate for the first time. Out of curiosity and mystery about physical changes, young men and girls began to pay attention to related matters, eager to acquire sexual knowledge, and also interested in physical changes of the opposite sex. This is an inevitable product of sexual physiological development, which is normal and reasonable. It is beneficial for breaking the mystery of sex, mastering scientific knowledge, promoting physiological development and mental health, and having a profound impact on a person's life. How to deal with sexual curiosity that germinates after sexual physiological maturity?
Acquire sexual knowledge. Nowadays, there are many books, movies, and videos containing sexual knowledge, and young girls must choose appropriate content based on their age and developmental level under the guidance of teachers and parents. Do not search for or secretly access various related books without authorization. When encountering physical changes and developmental problems, you can also consult with parents, teachers, hotlines, and departments to find scientific answers as soon as possible. Don't be shy and answer with suppressed emotions. For example, some teenagers believe that they have problems with their organ development, feel sluggish all day long, their academic performance drops, and their bodies also collapse. Then their guardians find that the problem is serious and take them for an examination, which is completely normal. From then on, they can rest assured that everything returns to normal. They have been late for several years and their physical and mental health has been greatly affected. Of course, parents should patiently explain when encountering such sexual issues from their children, and not have a complaining or disdainful attitude, as it will only dampen their enthusiasm.
Cultivate self-control. Self control is one of the good qualities of will, manifested as rational control of emotions and desires. After entering adolescence, there are often cute experiences. It is usually a sexual impulse that people can control through their will. Therefore, we must learn to suppress impulses. If you encounter something you want to do that you should not do temporarily, you should pay special attention to suppressing the occurrence of impulsive behavior.
Therefore, while receiving scientific education, it is also important to pay attention to self resistant teasing, vulgar, and unhealthy reading materials, and overcome curiosity in this regard. Sometimes hand made copies can knock down large things. Just like taking drugs, initially no one planned to use them for a lifetime, nor did they plan to use their family assets, but out of curiosity, anyone who took a sip could no longer escape. Yellow books, magazines, and videos are the same. With the first time, of course, with the second and third times, the car won't be able to stop. This requires willpower, and the growth process of teenagers is actually a process of continuing to cultivate their willpower. They should do it resolutely, not resolutely, and people without willpower will definitely not be able to do it.
Elevate emotions. First love is an inevitable law for the physical and mental development of every young girl. When first love emotions arise, it is precisely when we need to focus on learning cultural grid technology, and the contradiction between the two often causes us various troubles. We should always remember that knowledge and physical fitness are the costs of future work, so it is important to invest our main energy in learning and physical exercise, and improve our cultural and physical fitness. The guardians of young and young girls should also abide by the rules, follow the temptation of kindness, and elevate the children's first love feelings. Emotional sublimation is the expression of emotions and the beautification of the soul, based on correct understanding. The sublimation of emotions enables children to approach their physical and psychological changes with vitality and positive spirit, replacing sexual desires with noble pursuits, and becoming good teenagers with strong talent awareness, broad interests, good cultural literacy, strong aspirations, and noble sentiments.
