Post Date December, 02 2023
It is often said that people see character after parting. Many people do everything to break up. Either slander the other party, or completely ignore the other party, or have no contact with the other party. In fact, these are just to get rid of each other quickly. How to get rid of your ex-boyfriend without hurting him? This requires a person to have morality, integrity and sense of responsibility.
First, you should tell the other party why you and the other party can't be together
If you want to get rid of each other, in fact, the best way is to speak well. The reason why many problems are complicated is that many people always don't like to spread things out and are always evasive. In fact, this is the worst way to explain. Because it will keep the other party hopeful. In fact, you can tell the other party why you can't be together. You should find some objective and practical reasons to make the other party feel that reality can't be reconciled. It has nothing to do with your character flaws or your problems.
Second: learn to appreciate each other's advantages and give each other hope for an optimistic life
You should know that if you break up with the other party, it only means that you quit the other party's life. Remember the strengths of each other, just as you did when you first met. You should tell each other's advantages. If you leave you, you can find a broader stage of life and better people. The quality of life in the future will also be very good. You know him. Since you can't depend on him for a long time, you can also make him feel that you still appreciate him. Even if you break up, you will make the other party feel that you are really a good person!
Third: tell each other that you broke up peacefully
Let the other party know that you broke up because you both hoped that the other party would have a better life. You used to be friends, but also because both parties in love have more understanding. You don't want any problems between you. And you can make an agreement with each other that you can find friends with each other in the future. I hope everyone can find something suitable for themselves. I believe you can find better ones with your conditions. If you don't want to find it, you can also develop your studies well.
Fourth: give the other party a certain period of calm
If you break up with the other party, you should learn to let it go slowly. After all, you have been in love for some time, and there are feelings between you. Only let the other party experience for a period of time, think twice, and probably understand the impossibility between you, let the other party slowly learn to put it down. In this way, the other party will slowly accept your reality. In any case, remember not to hurt the other party with hateful words. What you give to the other party is always appreciation and encouragement, or you have requirements and hopes for the other party. Only in this way can you help the other party grow.
If you want to get rid of each other, you need to speak well. When you understand empathy, you will understand that the other party likes you now, often because the other party appreciates one aspect of you. When the other party no longer appreciates you one day, maybe you are nothing in the other party's heart. Because you know all about compassion, you should learn to be virtuous in your mouth. You should still treat each other as a good friend when you break up, so as not to hurt each other and leave a heavy psychological shadow.
