For women, cheating on their husband is a headache. However, if you want to continue living, don't play "cry, make trouble, and hang" with him. This can only drive him away, but instead, you need to be flexible and strategic in fighting with Xiao San and beat him to death on the beach.
However, different types of mistresses need to adopt different strategies. Now, the editor will tell female friends how to overcome those difficult mistresses.
Female subordinates
This type of underground romance in the office is the most common, and it can be said that it is a long-term "love" that takes what you need. They struggle to understand their husbands better than their wives, knowing that their bosses and superiors are married and willing to give up their status. It is precisely their selfless dedication that gives infidelity men a sense of guilt and makes them even more reluctant to abandon them.
Countermeasure: Once you find that your husband and female subordinates have an unusual relationship, remember it in your heart and don't act recklessly, knowing it will cause trouble for the company. Instead, you need to cleverly and repeatedly make excuses to "visit" your husband's workplace, showcase their love and family happiness, give your husband an IDA in front of her, and vaguely say "I'll be waiting for you tonight". At the same time, create conditions to strike up a conversation with the female subordinate and quickly become friends. Then, find opportunities to "sidetrack" or "gossip" and compete with the female subordinate's wisdom, so that she is impressed by your wisdom and magnanimity, but also because they are too familiar with each other and their interests fade away.
Divorced Women
If the mistress is a divorced woman, it is likely that she is harboring a mentality of revenge and loneliness. Their difficulty lies in not caring about their third place and satisfying their desire for revenge... It can be said that they have let go of everything except for their children.
Countermeasure: Although divorced women may put down their face, they cannot let go of their children. Therefore, you can definitely use their children to write articles. For example, you can ask your child to write a letter or directly negotiate with her, using the child to influence her; For example, check out the school where her child is studying, and then directly negotiate with her, clearly telling her that if she still doesn't let go, she will tell the child about being someone else's junior, and even spread around the child. This move is a bit harsh, but it is important to be cautious and minimize the harm to the child.
Uneducated woman
Such women have no use except for their beauty, and the reason why they willingly become mistresses is for money. Their difficulty lies in money, and they are particularly greedy. No matter how much compensation you give them, they will feel inadequate, especially for mistresses who have already given birth.
Countermeasure: If the main family wants to deal with this mistress who is specifically for money, they must not delude themselves with using money to smooth it out. You must understand that she is a bottomless pit and will never be satisfied. The only way is to confront each other head-on, using evil to control evil, and there is no need to be afraid. As long as she dares to come and challenge you, don't be afraid to make a fuss. If you should fight or make a fuss, you should be even more mischievous than her. You should subdue her in one go in terms of momentum.
Women born in the 1990s
Women in this age group are often rebellious and self centered. They spend time with married men just for fun and often invade others' marriages under the guise of "love". Their rebellious personalities are not afraid of heaven and earth.
Countermeasure: As a woman, if there is a mistress born in the 1990s in your marriage, don't panic, she doesn't really want to steal your husband. You should first understand the personality of the younger sister born in the 1990s, and then "tease" her husband in detail about how they met and how they went to bed. You also need to win over her and fight together, act together, obedient to her on the surface, and slowly alienate her in secret. To get rid of the younger sister born in the 1990s, you must take your time and avoid being too fast or too fierce. As long as the younger sister is bored or annoyed, she will naturally think of leaving.
Infatuated woman
Such women often value emotions more. They do not seek money or fame, which is the most difficult type to deal with. When an unfaithful man encounters difficulties, he will also reach out to help, which is her most powerful weapon.
Countermeasure: To deal with such a woman, it is necessary to prescribe the right medicine to the case. Since she values the "love" between her husband and you more, then you need to work hard on this "love" word. In her eyes, your husband can only be shared by you and her two women, and he is not allowed to spend any more time. In that case, you can invite a trusted best friend to "snatch" your husband (naturally not to be detected by him), and after your husband is hooked by your best friend, you can skillfully reveal it to the infatuated mistress. Her psychological jealousy will also surge out, and the dedicated ones will also weigh whether their efforts are worth it, leading to withdrawal.